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#1 Jun 22 - 9PM
betty2020
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just the day from HELL

Well i finally snapped today. Started this morning around 10am. My phone started blowing up with text. Freak boy was accusing me of making fake profiles and contacting his current girlfriend on Myspace. I was at work. He sent 19 text messages in a 20 minute period. All ridiculously false accusations, Threats and lies. He told me he was going to call my dad. What? Can someone explain this. My father lives in another state and has only met him once. I am 44 years old. What in the hell would my dad do with this info. Ground me? I am really starting to become frightened at how disconnected he appears to be from reality. His thought process are very disturbing. I am starting to think there is more going on. Dual personality disorders.
Im so tired of this i went down and got a order of protection. Now i have to see his ugly ass in court in two weeks. I dont have a choice. I cant live like this anymore. God, someone please tell me there is an end to this. Other than murder.

Jun 24 - 12AM
betty2020
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Thank you everyone for the

Thank you everyone for the comments and support. I guess i really did this OP because i cant take the harassment. I live 2 1/2 hrs from him. He talks a lot of crap. He did this to other people/exs when i was with him. Now i am included in the ex target group. I dont think i am in danger physically (hopefully). However I can not get the police to intervene unless there is this order. I did it so he understands that i will follow through if he continues the harassment and threats (mainly via phone,text)and have him arrested. He is a bully. This is his control. I let him bully me when i was with him and he still thinks he can. I am a different person today. I am doing this to show him he can not do this to me anymore. Not the same old door mat he is use to stepping on. I have not heard from him since the order was placed on him. I hope this works and will keep everyone posted. xoxoxox

only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

Jun 23 - 10PM
almostlydia
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Mine did this

Mine did this too. After a while of his wrecking entire days with his vicious text, i began to believe he was venting on me because he was not getting what he needed out there. Then it would end apparently when he got what he needed. While my day was wrecked. I would lock myself in the house and hide out like a scared mouse. My mistake was not calling the police on the occasions when he did show up. Please call the police if he shows. Otherwise it is like giving them permission to do it again and again. And speak to them thru the door, do not open it and let them see you have the phone in your hand and are calling. DO NOT waiver on this. You must show them there is an authority figure out there that they will answer to. Otherwise they are like bullies, able to do whatever to a mere woman. If you feel threatened, call someone and let them know. TRUST your instincts without question. 'Fear is our greatest gift'. When mine was doing this, I befriended the biggest guys in my gym that called me their 'little sister' and said sometimes a broken knee cap is the only message some guys get:) I felt better. Thinking of you. Stay strong but TRUST your instincts. They are powerful. Do not hesitate. Stay strong.

almostlydia

Jun 23 - 10PM (Reply to #9)
Introspection
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Almostlydia

Good to have you back!
Jun 23 - 10AM
Lisa E. Scott
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Betty

Thank God you got an order of protection. You must take every measure possible to protect yourself. Notify your family as well as legal authorities. I'm sorry you have to endure his wrath. Can you block his number from your phone?
Jun 23 - 11AM (Reply to #6)
betty2020
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Wish i could Lisa but my

Wish i could Lisa but my phone service (tmobile) doesn't have a feature for that. I was thinking back to when i first started dating him and all the drama that was taking place with him and his exs. I remember thinking to myself, wow this guy must be a real catch. It actually impressed me in a sick way. Of course he made it appear as if it was them stalking him. Now i am having my doubts. I think he is the perpetrator of drama to make himself appear to the new girlfriend that everyone wants him. This is a sick game but even his ex wife thinks this is what he does. I cant be a part of this. I should not be condemned to a life of hell for spending two years of my life with this nut case. We have no children together. No reason to continue this. If he breaks this order i will have him arrested. Im just done.

only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

Jun 23 - 11AM (Reply to #7)
Lisa E. Scott
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Betty

Glad to hear you will have him arrested immediately if he violates the order of protection. Do not waver here. Stay strong and know we are here for you. xoxo
Jun 22 - 9PM
aceonelady
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hell

Well they are insane and delusional...mine told me on the phone after D&D that i should go jump in front of a train...ANd that he had thoughts of killing me and then killing himself....so i say,well maybe i will do that...and i hdid hang up the phone on him....10 minutes later he starts calling me back i didn't answer...then he sent me avoicmail sayin if i didn't answer the phone he would call my sisters in Brazil(i live in Europe)to tell them that i was going to commit suicide....I thought well he is bullshiting...Guess What?HE did call my sisters ,they called me directly sayng a guy told them i was ready to commit suicide at that moment....Thats how sick and delusional they are...So believe me he is capable of it and more....i would warn my family about him....

Aceonelady

Jun 23 - 9PM (Reply to #4)
hitandrun
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aceonelady

That is so messed up. I know he's in your brain and heart, but he seems super mean and I am glad you live across the ocean from him.
Jun 23 - 4PM (Reply to #2)
AnotherPath
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They lose the plot big time

They lose the plot big time in their desperate moments............ but they are disordered, we should never forget that, not right at all, completely twisted.

Ending the dance

Jun 23 - 9PM (Reply to #3)
hitandrun
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betty2020

He has lost it...calling your Dad? WTF?!! I'm 44 too..yeah call my Dad. You are very smart to get an order of protection. Can you take a big male friend with you to court, or 2 big male friends? Also, I would check with T-mobile again and tell them you have an order of protection. Ask for a supervisor if you haven't already. I think they have an option for you to actually change the phone number...maybe not block it. Could be wrong, but it is worth asking.