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GASP!!!!!!!!!!! What a pig!!! I'm soooo sorry. I agree with Sparrow...this jerk isn't even human. He will treat everyone else the same way he treated you - I guarantee it.

Words can not express how deeply sorry I am that you had to endure this attack on your soul. Please know, that this has nothing at all to do with your confinements to a wheelchair. He would have preyed upon you whether you were in one or not. I would hate to think that you think that is the reason why. He is a user, and abuser and a disgusting animal disguised as a human being. And he has moved on from you to someone else and will continue this dispicible routine. He more than likely knew the new supply long before he D & D'd you. Rarely, and I mean RARELY do they ever leave their supply without new supply secured,and when I say "secured" I would venture to say, at least 2-3 months. Concerning yourself with how long we think they will be married is a waste of time. It is irrelevant to your healing, to your recovery. He raped your soul, it's what they do. And he will rape her's as well. In what time manner it happens is not important. Are you in therapy? Have you been to the OB/GYN for an exam? My narc left me with an STD that I now have to deal with on a qrtly basis. It is what it is, I made the mistake of trusting him and ended up with the STD, I should have known better, no matter how much we trust someone, we can not trust them with our health, more importantly, with our lives. Live and learn, I am lucky it is only what it is. Please stay close to the forum, educate yourself on this disorder, reach out as much as you need, and most importantly, continue to see him for what he is.........you are too kind to call him a "jerk" he is a disgusting animal. Welcome to the forum, I am sorry what you experienced brought you here, but please know that you are amoung friends here.

the same manipulation we are all feeling. The DD is so very hard to accept and we think "what did I do". He was not a man. He was a predator and you can be sure you were not the first and certainly will not be the last. May i suggest that you go to the gyno asap to get tested for std? I divorced my XNH after 33 years then went on to the next NBF. He gave me Herpes. I am sorry that you lost your virginity to him but I think most people would tell you that the first one was the worst one. At least that was my experience. As far as his quickie marriage...what kind of man and woman marry before they know each other? And what kind of parents subject their kids to new partners all the time? Selfish, immature lower forms of humanity with no morals or integrity. But GF, you DO have these precious gifts. they will never have them because they run from themselves always avoiding reality. You are in a good place & will get lots of love & hugs & knowledge here.

That's fucking repulsive! Makes my blood boil. Nobody deserves that. Wheelchair or not, that's beside the point. You deserve more BASIC human respect than that! Plenty of people are in wheelchairs, that's no excuse for the things he said, and the way he mistreated you. This asshole N just used your awesome wheels as an easy way to slight you, and D & D you. But he could've said anything. If it weren't a wheelchair, he'd use something else as a prop, to make you feel insecure. You dodged a bullet. Well, grazed one. This other woman is in for the surprise of a lifetime. I'd feel bad for her. A marriage is only as good as the two people in it. When one of those people is an N, what's your guess as to the longevity of that union? He didn't even flinch, he just moved right on, without real thought or remorse. That's an N. At the rate he's going, he could just as easily divorce this new woman, and get engaged to a third this week! I am happy he removed himself from your life. You were so accepting and loving. He didn't even deserve to be in your presence. Nasty nasty N. I hope to God you know you're worth better treatment than that. I just want to add, from the bottom of my heart, I'm glad you're here. Nobody here will EVER speak to you that way.

That is absolutely disgusting, how low can these assholes stoop? You did not deserve to be treated like that but snowflake is right. They D&D in the cruelest ways imaginable and will destroy anyone in their path. You've come to the right place for help though, keep reading sweetheart, it will help you make sense of the nightmare that just happened. Stay strong x

that its not long, urgggh he sounds vile...hon if you hadnt been in a wheelchair he would have d and d'd with something else. My pussy wasnt tight enough...nobody has ever said that! God dont you wish you could relive these moments.. x x