I've reached the bottom
I've reached the bottom
I really dont even know how I can describe what Im feeling today. last weekend he embarrassed and raged at me, and this week I thought I could manage it and get myself into a better place for awhile, but this morning he got me in a corner about HIS money which is what hes obsessed with. I hate him I detest him actually, there I said it!!! When I think of all the things Ive accomplished in my life, the hardships I have overcome, the children I raised, to hear this coward tell me that Ive never achieved anything and that He is such a hero, makes me want to vomit. He has broken ever promise he ever made, he gloats to me that he has his family near him and I dont because he made better choices than me. Selfish bastard.
It was hard for me to understand that someone could enjoy watching someone they love writhing in pain, but he does.
He continually undermines me and sets me up to fail in our relationship so that he can maintain control. The cruelty!! Im broken and sobbing again because I have a tax bill to meet by the 8th and hes randomly drawn the money I needed for that, just because he could, He knew my need. I must meet that deadline! He loves the power it gives him to scream at me "why is it always my money we are discussing!" He plays his mind games and when I get so frustrated hes finally happy, he can then walk around with a smirk at me sobbing.
I don't know how to tell my adult children this but this man is a monster. I understand how a woman can be reduced to swallowing rat-poison or to end her life. Last night I watched a TV documentary on how men murdered their wives because they wanted money or freedom to remarry. In one case he murdered three wives over 20 years and got away with it three times in the USA.
I need to come back to the spiritual relationship I had with my maker before this human impostor entered my life.
I despise him! and this board is the only place I have to deal with this. I live in a foreign culture, *although I speak their language, Im away from my roots, and have no money for a therapist. I hate what this soul robber has reduced me to.
Thank you for listening I feel like a piece of shit on the bottom of someones shoe.
Dear, this pain is not
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for Briseis in respose to your comment
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I'm so Sorry
what a monster this man is .