It's time has come...

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#1 Aug 9 - 4PM
ShaynasMommy
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It's time has come...

I had mentioned before in posting my story that I should start a thread about karmic retribution that any of our Narc's may have experienced. I just read something that goldie wrote about God and the universe taking care of the justice/revenge part.
So I guess i'll go first.

My ExN thought he was pretty slick at first, moving his girl in about a week after I moved out, so he would never be alone. BTW, she was supposedly running away from her husband at the time, but I dont know if there was any abuse involved. Well, I guess she grew weary of him coming straight home every nite and not stopping to ask her about her day, just taking her into the bedroom to bang her then ask what's for dinner? because about 3-4 months afterwards, she left him. And it was sneaky, too. She slowly started to move her stuff out right under his nose until he woke up one day and realized what happened. He whined about how she abandoned their goldfish, like it was their kid or something. He spent the holidays, reportedly, alone. I spent them with my family and the new guy I was seeing. Of course, he came sniffing around me after that and I told him to f off which caused him to melt down in our office and he was disiplined for it.
I worked with him at the same company. His father also worked there for a short time. Until he was aressted for sleeping with his 15 year old stepdaughter, who he had raised since she was a little tyke. Belive me, N didn't fall that far from the tree, N senior. So N Sr. lost his job, went to jail, and had to register as a sex offender when he got out and is now living as a hermit in the hills. So the karma bus ran him over, too, as he was a slimy asshole to me and said several pervy things to me that royally pissed me off.
How embarassing for N! The daddy he looked up to was not perfect after all. How did this make HIM look! LOL
And, of course, this information spread throughout the office like wildfire, and N spread the rumor that I was the one who leaked the information. Oh please, as if I was privy to that info....when in fact I was the absolute last person to know this! My supervisor told me so that I didnt have to hear it from someone else, she didnt want to see me hurt some more. Flash forward a few months, and after desparately searching for more female supply, because he was unable to get at me, he settled on this girl who was grossly overweight, not very attractive, and very insecure with low self esteem. Please don't think I am traying to act better than others, I'm not. But she really was someone who caould have taken better care of herself and invested in herself, instead an N got a hold of her and messed her up further. She still tries to communicate with him of FB, poor thing. And this is weird, too. When OW lost her job at the bank, he actually went there and yelled at her Ex Mgr and made a fool of himself. WTF! Who the hell does that!?
The most recent update I got, because people just can't help but do that for you, even years later, is that he is morbidly obese, poor health. Probably still thinks he's still a stud, though. He's got such a latin machismo thing goin' on in addition to the narcissism thing. His current woman is actually his wife and she kinda looks like me, only heavier, and she is a special ed teacher, which is what I was going to school for at the time we were together. Go figure. He still refers to me as "Evil" on FB, refuses to call me by name, still trying to D&D me long distance I suppose. Which absolutely makes no sense because most of the people he now knows have no freakin clue who I am. It's like I said before, I wonder what kind of impression that makes on his wife when he speaks so bitterly about a woman he hasn't seen in 8 years! If it were me I would wonder a bit, how about you?

OK,Next!

Aug 9 - 6PM
Goldie
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My point exactly

and you did not even have to lift a finger. My recent X is in jail so there you go and he is only 29. His first major GF wore the pants in that hook up. She apparently got too demanding asking for a ring and marriage and he flew the coop. He hooked up with the next one and she gave him the royal boot probably before D&D because he was still kissing her ass. She was older and knew the score so she took him for what she could get, got a r/o and refused to see him anymore. He proceeded to get addicted to drugs, get very heavy according to his friend, and relyed on crack ho's and hookers for the next few years until lucky me came along. Obviously I knew none of this at the time and it all comes from other sources not him, as I do not believe a single word of any of his versions. Yes, they change like the wind. Anyway, he puts me through the wringer for several months and then winds up in jail when all of his creepy actions were reported to the police. He now has the record from hell because he thought he would pull a fast one on me by refusing to pay my restitution or go to rehab, which was all I was looking for. So the moron pleeds guilty to like over a dozen charges to supposedly pull one over on me. His P/O says he is done. He now has the record from hell and it is all from him pleading guilty to avoid paying me back. So basically he thought he would trash me to the courts, his lawyer, and the PO and they did not care about him like I did so they ALLOWED HIM TO PLEAD GUILTY to everything and he thought they were his friends (you have no friends in the court system, it is all about them)so he thinks, oh good they think she is a loser and they believe me so I don't have to pay a dime or get any treatment. The TRUTH of the matter is had he agreeded to the restitution and gone into treatment I would have NEVER testified against him and he would not have this horrific record. So who really got the last laugh here? I was pissed for 5 minutes when I did not get my money back but then I said to the judge he can keep the money and go to jail for all I care now. This is all about lies, lack of integrity, and he and his lawyer trying to weisel out of doing what is right. This man is very stupid, he has no clue who his friends are, with him it is all about winning and he basically cooked his own goose and lost probalby the best real friend he ever had. Oh well. God bless, Goldie
Aug 12 - 9AM (Reply to #4)
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goldie

they have no friends, except us, and cos we are so leniet with them, we are the one,s so taken for granted. when push comes to shove, if they havent got us they have noone, my exh used to go off with his "friend,s for hour,s i couldnt get in touch[no mobiles then, even if there had been he wouldnt have picked up] when i kicked him out, he had no where to go, all his "friend,s" said no, he slept in his car. exn did say to me though. when i said ime done with you, talk about you dont know what you have got till you lose it, i know what i have lost in you, i stood there looking at him, he then said well say something, i said ime still done leave me alone, loser,s bigtime
Aug 9 - 4PM
Susan32
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The karma bus has pulled in

A year after the D&D (this was 9 years ago), my ex-P tied the knot with the OW. They had twins. His parents had to move across the country to raise them. In fact, they're living with him. Don't know about the current status of the OW and the marriage;none of my business. Not long after that, he put up an essay online slamming two of his colleagues who had helped him with editing. He personally insults them by name in his first footnote. He used to give lectures pro bono, like his colleagues, now he'll only do them if he's given a grant (thanks college newsletter) As for my ex-Narc boss, he was fired 8 months after he had done the same to me. Not even a year! He's been trying to open a nursing home that was SUPPOSED to open December '08... and it still hasn't opened. Pretty building... nothing inside.
Aug 10 - 8AM (Reply to #2)
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susan32

pretty building ,nothing inside, sound,s like the n,s lol.