It's time has come...
It's time has come...
I had mentioned before in posting my story that I should start a thread about karmic retribution that any of our Narc's may have experienced. I just read something that goldie wrote about God and the universe taking care of the justice/revenge part.
So I guess i'll go first.
My ExN thought he was pretty slick at first, moving his girl in about a week after I moved out, so he would never be alone. BTW, she was supposedly running away from her husband at the time, but I dont know if there was any abuse involved. Well, I guess she grew weary of him coming straight home every nite and not stopping to ask her about her day, just taking her into the bedroom to bang her then ask what's for dinner? because about 3-4 months afterwards, she left him. And it was sneaky, too. She slowly started to move her stuff out right under his nose until he woke up one day and realized what happened. He whined about how she abandoned their goldfish, like it was their kid or something. He spent the holidays, reportedly, alone. I spent them with my family and the new guy I was seeing. Of course, he came sniffing around me after that and I told him to f off which caused him to melt down in our office and he was disiplined for it.
I worked with him at the same company. His father also worked there for a short time. Until he was aressted for sleeping with his 15 year old stepdaughter, who he had raised since she was a little tyke. Belive me, N didn't fall that far from the tree, N senior. So N Sr. lost his job, went to jail, and had to register as a sex offender when he got out and is now living as a hermit in the hills. So the karma bus ran him over, too, as he was a slimy asshole to me and said several pervy things to me that royally pissed me off.
How embarassing for N! The daddy he looked up to was not perfect after all. How did this make HIM look! LOL
And, of course, this information spread throughout the office like wildfire, and N spread the rumor that I was the one who leaked the information. Oh please, as if I was privy to that info....when in fact I was the absolute last person to know this! My supervisor told me so that I didnt have to hear it from someone else, she didnt want to see me hurt some more. Flash forward a few months, and after desparately searching for more female supply, because he was unable to get at me, he settled on this girl who was grossly overweight, not very attractive, and very insecure with low self esteem. Please don't think I am traying to act better than others, I'm not. But she really was someone who caould have taken better care of herself and invested in herself, instead an N got a hold of her and messed her up further. She still tries to communicate with him of FB, poor thing. And this is weird, too. When OW lost her job at the bank, he actually went there and yelled at her Ex Mgr and made a fool of himself. WTF! Who the hell does that!?
The most recent update I got, because people just can't help but do that for you, even years later, is that he is morbidly obese, poor health. Probably still thinks he's still a stud, though. He's got such a latin machismo thing goin' on in addition to the narcissism thing. His current woman is actually his wife and she kinda looks like me, only heavier, and she is a special ed teacher, which is what I was going to school for at the time we were together. Go figure. He still refers to me as "Evil" on FB, refuses to call me by name, still trying to D&D me long distance I suppose. Which absolutely makes no sense because most of the people he now knows have no freakin clue who I am. It's like I said before, I wonder what kind of impression that makes on his wife when he speaks so bitterly about a woman he hasn't seen in 8 years! If it were me I would wonder a bit, how about you?
OK,Next!
My point exactly
goldie
The karma bus has pulled in
susan32