Is it more mind games or do they ever have a moment of true insight?
Is it more mind games or do they ever have a moment of true insight?
After 2 months of NC initiated by me, I get an email from him that for the first time showed some sense of him actually recognizing what he is...
He said he's an impostor, with no real day to day friends, a phony career, and he doesn't deserve what he has.
He said if his wife knew what was in his heart and mind and the things he had done she would be crushed.
He even said "I think I am a good and nice person, but only when it suits my wants and needs." (WOW! That was a real revelation...and so true)
I realize that there seems to be a spectrum...like most disorders, but I wonder if deep down they don't all really know what scumbags they are. It must suck to be them.
On the other hand, that could all be a ploy for sucking me back in by feeling sorry for him. Not going there. Just that the mind fucking continues and it is exhausting. I guess I'll never really know if there was sincerity there or not.
Bad and Unkind
Self-reflection
Absolutely.
Mine always said ..
Exactly, Dee!
Absolutely
Cheers to you Dee!
I think that that they know
if he's dishonest to his
I think they know that they
Love it, Maky!
It is so disturbing when they
It's all of the above!! They
Always assume the sincerity level is at ZERO.
landed