indifferenceis it possible
indifferenceis it possible
I dont want to stick a pin in anyones balloon, but I believe it is impossible to achieve complete indifference even if you are 10 yrs NC. Thats why women are still on here talking about a relationship of ten years back, some of them are remarried or with new partners but are still trying to work it out.
Its the terrible thought that someone could attack you emotionally rape you pretend to share your ups and downs for years and then discard you like a piece of toilet paper, that is hard to absorb and we often get locked into understanding it, or trying to resolve it.
Its like being robbed and murdered by your kid, except worse there was no desperation, no drug money needed, with N its just an addiction to power that they feed on, they keep going back to old sources.
I wish indifference was a reality. I still feel hatred, deep hatred and i know thats not good, one day I wont care so much, one day it wont hurt so much.
But I know ill never get over this, it will stand as a gaping scar to remind me.
Its like they walk in and step over your dead body and keep going.
Its is the only regret of my life, I always said I dont do regret.
To reach indifference you need closure, they will never give you that.
Ive given myself closure, but Im still looking over my shoulder. In the same way that fear will arise in a woman who has been raped when she hears footsteps behind her in the dark..
They are the devil incarnate, charming, and fatally attractive.
Vampires need garlic to drive them away.
Neediness drives Narcs away, so act clingy and needy and he may disappear for awhile.
Time fades the memory and
I do think time helps in the
Maybe, but here's my take
"He has no sex"
Soaper
I wonder if the ones that had
I guess I was lucky