"immature" for going NC

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#1 May 31 - 5AM
Scoop
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"immature" for going NC

Good morning on this holiday Monday .
Right the slurs have began . I heared last night that he is accusing me of beng "immature" because i have gone no contact .Its intresting to me that the check list on "how they stage their return " is paning out .
The person who relayed this imformation got a piece of my mind and i talked about the abuse for the first time to them , i said "its not imature ,it is a woman saying no to an abusive man , i would like to point out that the last time i was friends with this man was when the abuse got much werse "

I can just see my narcs innocent victum face now .. he is still blaming and shaming ... these freaks are all the same Where is the direct contact from him saying "lets talk , im sorry ". He is a sneaky coward . This is what he has done in the hover so far .
1 , he got a friend to invite me to a party which he was at .
2, he got his friend to call me to ask me to the pub where he was at
3 he got a friend to call me when he was with his friend
4 he tryed to get access to me but coming to my house under the gise of helping his friend get his things .
5 he invited me to a meeting twise
6 he was where i was at when i picked my friends child up from school .
7 now he has a friend relay that i am being imature .

Non of theses efforts of contact are significant untill you add them all up , he is trying to fly under the radar .
Its a difficult no contact issue with the friends that we share , im in politics and we do all work togther and socialize . I can not go no contact with all my friends but his best friend i have .
Scoop x

2how they stage thier returns which is "get the popcorn and watch the show " or somthting llke that .

May 31 - 8AM
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scoop

Ya, the thing that I found helps is seeing continued evidence of how typical and predictible they are. Kind of helps erase any doubts that there may actually be ONE 'good' cell in their bodies. Good for you to tell this person to buzz off. Don't some people have a life, or what? Apparently not! You're right, grab the popcorn. It turns into quite the ridiculous show, doesn't it?