I'm Trapped

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#1 Jun 28 - 4PM
wonder bug
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I'm Trapped

I have posted a few post on here over the past few years regarding my Narcissist Boyfriend. Even though I have read several post and comments that said run as fast as you can, I decided to stay with my boyfriend because I Love Him With All My Heart / We have been together for 3 years.

Since my last post - We have had minor issues but for the most part things have been pretty calm. Until Now !

I then had a hip replacement on June 11th. and I told him not to come and visit me in the hospital but he took off the day from work and came to see me after my surgery on Monday. He then returned on Wednesday. I came home on Friday and he spent the night. He had obligations on Saturday but returned Sunday and brought clothes with so he could go to work the following day. He was great the whole week- helped me shower, get in bed, changed my bandages etc. He looked like he was enjoying helping me out and stayed the entire week with me.
Saturday morning he left early and text me later and said he was staying home. Sunday he seemed distant and I asked if anything was wrong. He said that he can't deal with our relationship anymore and with him spending a week with me it felt like a marriage and he has already done that and doesn't want to do it again. He claims that I love him way to much and until I can prove him that I do not love him we are no longer going to engage in sex or hang out as much. I asked him if there was another woman involved and he said he was being honest and the answere was (no other woman)
So ladies I am stumped. This guy has known I love him, and he flipped out on me for no reason. Thats the best excuse he could come up with for ending what we had. But the funny part is he will text me every morning and say good morning but then when I respond back, he then replies back, Busy /Later,,,,,,, which means don't bother him.
Yesterday he was so nasty to me via text that after he got out of work he actually called me to apologize for his behavior as he was having a bad day at work. I thought that was sort of cool that he called, but then today I get the Busy /Later response from him.

In my own opionion I think he loves me and whenever he gets to close to me and is having his own feelings then he starts a fight and makes everything my fault. I don't know what to do anymore. The sex is great, we have fun together but his moods swings come into play at any given time for no apparant reason, he just lashes out at me.

I'm not sure if this can even be repaired this time,,,, this fight seems different, like he really means it this time and he isn't coming back.

Please ladies give me some feed back - Much Appreciated.

Jun 30 - 4PM
rosedewittbukater
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What Journey said

Jun 30 - 4PM
MissScout
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They all have such similar qualities

Jun 30 - 1PM
agnesmurphy17
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Why does he do it?

Jun 30 - 4PM (Reply to #24)
agnesmurphy17
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P.S.

Jun 29 - 4PM
lookingahead
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Get out now.

Jun 29 - 11AM
matahari
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Please read the madonna/whore

Jun 29 - 10AM
wonder bug
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Pls read Ladies - From Wonder Bug

Jun 29 - 4PM (Reply to #20)
Hunter
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WB

Jun 29 - 2PM (Reply to #17)
Journey
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Wonder Bug, he needs to be in

Journey on...

Jun 29 - 5PM (Reply to #18)
wonder bug
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Journey - Thanks so much

Jun 30 - 12PM (Reply to #19)
Journey
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You are welcome WB. Speedy

Journey on...

Jun 29 - 11AM (Reply to #16)
spinning
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Okay, wonder bug, I know you

spinning

Jun 28 - 9PM
ruby01 (not verified)
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Wonder Bug

Jun 29 - 12AM (Reply to #14)
no more an echo
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so poetic, ruby01

Jun 28 - 9PM
no more an echo
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time to take your power back

Jun 28 - 6PM
no more an echo
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Did you think that 'love' would normalize him?

Jun 28 - 6PM (Reply to #8)
wonder bug
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I agree with both you and hunter about the addiction part

Jun 28 - 8PM (Reply to #10)
Hunter
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Tell me .. What's so special

Jun 28 - 8PM (Reply to #11)
LoserFree
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Hunter now that's a thought I

Jun 28 - 7PM (Reply to #9)
DawnWins
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"once I hear those words, I

Jun 28 - 6PM
LoserFree
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wonder bug I reread your post

Jun 28 - 6PM (Reply to #5)
wonder bug
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Loser Free

Jun 28 - 7PM (Reply to #6)
LoserFree
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wonder bug I know it must be

Jun 28 - 4PM
lessonlearned
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do you enjoy being an emotional punching bag?

Jun 28 - 6PM (Reply to #3)
wonder bug
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Lesson Learned

Jun 28 - 4PM
Hunter
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You know what to do .. RUN!!