I'm afraid
I'm afraid
For me, one of the most difficult parts of this has been facing myself and understanding what it is about me that made me such an easy target. Now that I know what my guy was all about, I can look back and clearly see how he was manipulating me and setting me up as his victim from day one...the first time I ever spoke to him. I've spoken to his girlfriend and knew of a few other women he is/was involved with...and they are all sort of similar in a way..amazing women that were maybe too kind, a little naive...and had some sort of self-perceived "flaw" or insecurity that likely led them to accept all of his bs. (For me, I have some body image issues and was sexually inexperienced). I fit the mold...and it scares me how easily he is able to zone in and target just the right women....women who are quite frankly out of his league...but who do not see themselves as such for whatever reason. I feel so beaten down by this...my self-esteem is at an all time low...and I'm just so much weaker now than when I first met him...it scares me that I am now an even easier target for guys like this moving forward. I'm certainly smarter and would not ignore some of the red flags as I did the first time around...but I feel very vulnerable...and afraid. Thanks for listening.
It is difficult. I am sorry
Thank you so much. I do know
Wannaletgo
Thank you
They target the vulnerable
Wow...you expressed it so
you are so right that they target
your too good
It helps a lot...thank you.
it certainly is an eye opener
Thank you so much. I am
wannaletgo22
Thank you so much...I'm so
Honey, when you know better
I am looking for a therapist