I WON!!!!

Haha, I am literally just dancing around with glee right now!!

Long story as short as possible, I wrote my now EX-narc (LDR) last Sunday, telling him that when he could treat me with respect, he knew where to find me. I knew he wouldn't, I just wanted some space to clear my head.

I know now that what I was really doing was pushing him to write me one of his trademark "fuck off and leave me alone" messages, and when I hadn't heard from him by yesterday, I wrote him several more, basically laying a massive guilt trip on him for the crappy way he's been acting towards me after a wonderful visit in January.

As a side-note that is important to the story, last November when I found out he'd been cheating on me in ANOTHER LDR for months and months, I wrote her a message on FB with a timeline of what he'd been saying to me and her on almost the exact same days. I didn't hear back from her, and he didn't mention it but he did tell me they were in an "open" relationship, so I figured she simply hadn't cared.

So...this morning I wake up to a message from him saying, "leave me the fuck alone!" (YAY!) and...a message from HER on FB asking if I was online. I replied...and it turns out that somehow my message from November had gotten into a different folder of hers, and she had only JUST found it.

We had a very interesting conversation, comparing notes...turns out she was saving money to go visit him in July, which would have made her the THIRD woman he's met online that I know of who has gone to see him.

Also, he was telling ME that he was going to move me up to where he lives someday, while telling HER that he was going to move down there to live with her someday.

God, they're GOOD, aren't they?

Anyhow, to get to the point...SHE has now dumped HIM!!! After our chat she changed her FB status, deleting her relationship with him and changing her "I love you so much" cover to a picture of something else instead. She also JUST messages me saying that she wrote him an email ending the relationship, and telling him not to contact her again.

I know this is wrong, but I am GLOATING GLOATING GLOATING!!!

He has now lost his two main sources of supply...he'd known me for 3 years and her for over a year and a half...and had both of us eating out of the palm of his hand.

Now he has NEITHER, and has to start all over again!

ROFLMAO!!!!

Hee hee, sorry for the wall of text, I am just so effing HAPPY right now that I can hardly see straight!

Now starts TRUE NC, enough of this shit!

I AM FREE!!!! :D