I thought I recovered from HIM
I thought I recovered from HIM
I was so done, I have been feeling great going on with my life. I reconciled with my true soulmate and things are really good. A life people would envy.Although, I don't think my sex life will ever be the same. It was very amazing with my N. He definitely used the sex to seal the deal, to glue me, to bonded me to him. I was so excited I was over him. I was breathing again and starting to make plans for my future with my family. I am laughing again, singing, listening to music, going out, enjoying the beautiful life. No financial worries, no real stress, lots of people around me, lots of love in my life.
So WTF ? I have not spoken to him in over 60 days, his last text was 3 weeks ago (i did not respond). I have no CD left, I get it.
I totally understand disordered.I would never go back to him and those feeling of anxiety and distress. I was always suspicious that there were other women in his life and that they were NOT just his friends (and I was right). I uncovered them one by one. I understand the game plan, on my way out he was already working on my replacement and I knew who she was.
I MISS HIM !! Tonight I miss him. Where does that put me in recovery ? I really thought I was on track. I hate this, I didn't want this feeling to ever come back but it's here. If he contacted me today, I actually think I would fall into it. Of course with every ounce of my being I would fight it and at the end I would know better. The pain of resisting an encounter with him would be excruciating but I know the necessary rule, NC. I have come too far. So where is this in my recovery ? when does this go away forever. I hate this, I hate him !!! Is this something I will need to endure for the rest of my life ? Please tell me so I can prepare myself. I don't want to miss him. How does one get over that ? or do I deal with this as long as I am living ? If anyone has passed this please tell me it is only a phase. I have come too far to be here...Ugh ugh ugh !!! thank you for listening. This needed to get out.
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