I snooped :(
I snooped :(
Ok, I know I shouldn't have done it but I snooped. I don't know why I am so fixated on his life and what he is doing. To give you some background.. I was the other woman he left his wife for. We were together for 6 1/2 years and then he dumped me. It was a long distance relationship so I assumed that the reason it ended was because of the kids. So 1 1/2 years go by and he starts txting, emailing, IMing me... Tells me the same bs that all of you guys told you. We met for lunches and dinners periodically.
The last time I saw him was in December of last year. He told me how miserable he was, how he was happiest when with me, how he was going to start seeing a therapist... He then called 2 friends and told them that he realized that I was the one he wanted to spend the rest of his life with, that he wanted to marry me...
Three months later I found out he was engaged, had been for 3 years (3 months after we broke up) and I was in shock. I txted him and got no response. Well he rushed this girl to the alter and married her in August.
Well back to today. I found out this morning that she is pregnant!!! I am tettering between thinking this is hysterical (he won't be the center of attention) to feeling sick that in less than a year I went from thinking he wanted to marry me to having my entire world crumble at my feet.
This idiot has had 4 jobs in 4 years and 8 jobs in the past 10. That should tell you how big of a charmer he is. He got some naive girl 17 years younger than he is to marry him. I am sick to my stomach. I really don't know why I keep letting this happen. It is my own fault for looking.
She's a mail order bride.
The rush to the altar
snooping
I was a terrible snoop
abc0311
Snooping sucks and I have
Your lucky...
blueeyes
hopefuljms
Your lucky...
Be happy