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I need to ##### scream!!!!!

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#1 Jan 5 - 2AM
I_am_free
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I need to ##### scream!!!!!

Since leaving that rat (sorry no nicer word I can think of right nw) he has withheld my ID, Passport and drivers license and denies having it when his sister in law saw him remove it from the room where we stayed...I am studying for my MBA via correspondence and he has 2 books I need for this semester and I recently discovered (after leaving him) that the pig stored sme of my things at his ex wifes house (the 2nd ex wife). I had to hear from her father that my things r stored there and its not right. When i told narc he still denies it to this day!!! ARGH!!!!

Now I can go to home affairs and apply for new passport and documents etc but now his ex wife who clearly thinks we are still together tells me I should get the key from him and then I can get my things. LIKE WTF!!!!

He will not even give me my own damn key to my own storeroom so I had to get a new lock so where is this rat gonna give me her key.

He is making life difficult for me!!!! I wish I can find him and beat the shit out of him but he ran off to another province to stay with his sister (she is only one in the family who belives all his bullshit) and he changed his no after the police contacted him to ask him to return myt passport and things.

I feel FRUSTRATED!!!!!!

Jan 5 - 11AM
I_am_free
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Thank U guys, I ended up

Thank U guys, I ended up going out with my parents for the day and spending time with my daughter so it took my mind off the asshole. U r right, he wants me to contact him re my ID and stuff..but the police even told me yday to rather just go apply for new things because clearly this man is psycho. I have basically written off most of the shit he kept. Only problem was the stuff he stored @ his ex but she finally sent a msg saying I can collect tmz at 10am!! YIPPEEEE!!! Thank U guyz!!! mwah
Jan 5 - 7AM
Sparrow
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Show him who is in charge.

Show him who is in charge. ALL of these items can be replaced. There is a cost, of course,and its inconvenient, but they can all be replaced. Don't play this game with him anymore. There is more than one way to skin a cat. After this, you have no reason to concern yourself with him. Check-mate..........
Jan 5 - 7AM
Hunter
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Look you are playing right

Look you are playing right into his hands .. STOP.. Remember this when you miss this Assclown.. Things are just things.. Get new things and new passport ... Hunter
Jan 5 - 7AM
jackguy
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I was going to say

Is there any option for going to his place with a policeman or getting a policeman involved to get your items back...stealing a passport is a pretty serious thing in legal terms isn't it?
Jan 5 - 7AM
janemarie
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OMG....dirty rat is more like

OMG....dirty rat is more like it!!!!! Im so sorry...I understand...the Narc Rat I was with still has some of my things...such as furniture, luggage, and personal memories from my children like pictures and xmas ornaments....ugh!!!! Very frustrating!!! Calm yourself...take a breath...and know that all of these things can be replaced...Is it a pain in the ass?? Yes!!! ...Go to the police dept. and explain and maybe they can give you an escort and then you can get your things from the house where your things are...You dont NEED him!!! My Rat changed the locks on me...I had a policemen escort me to the house...and of course when he saw the cop he let us right in and I was able to get some things. This sucks so bad for you!!! I totally understand!! Dont let him crumble you....take a moment...rethink...come up with a plan...it may be a little costly but so worth it....And the things that you wont be able to get back...take as a loss and walk...For in the end....you didnt lose anything...You gained yourself and a life!!!!!!! Much love and empathy for you!! xoxo
Jan 5 - 5AM
bgirl
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Maybe ignore him and then

Maybe ignore him and then when he realises this he crawl back...then bargain with him, get your stuff, kick his ass, all sorted??? Or maybe this is wishful thinking? Not much use to you sorry. Unless you get a locksmith...or can't you access the premises at all???