I need a kick in the butt
I need a kick in the butt
Now that I found out he has himself his first real girlfriend that is 10 years younger than I… he is 28, I am 30. I can’t help but think he has changed. That last sexual contact I had with him was 6 months ago, which ended up being the icing of the cake for me for sanity’s sake. I have reacted in rage, anger, tried to get revenge, etc… every time I saw him since which was a few times. Last time I saw him was at my brother’s jack and jill and he met this 19/20 year old there, and they are now an item. They have been together for 2 months hence 2 months NC for me… she is popping up everywhere on facebook with mutual friends. I know I am being irrational, and extremely emotional, but I need reassurance….one like him cannot change in a span of 6 months, right? One who has abused me, lied to me, manipulated me… which I all allowed of course… but he really didn’t change, right? He is just changing his tactics, and going for weaker prey such as innocent 19/20 year old, right? Who I feel bad for… and will end up being a shell of her pretty self. I just keep going back to that false belief in my head that I wasn’t good enough. I can’t shake it. This is a whole new hurt for me. I know many people on here deal with this similar situation. I need advice. I need a kick in the butt! I keep on going through highs and lows. One minute I am fine, and the next I am balling my eyes out. This is a thing that called me a cunt, whore, skank, asshole, bitch… usually after sex, lied to me, said I had no real friends, that I disgust him, begged me to see him, told me he loved me, amongst other crazy, scrambled egg bullshit. He did not change in a span of 6 months, right?
rebuildingmysoul
If the grass seems greener on
Emerald
I hear you
No... not in the least little
Rebuilding
Of course he didn't change!
Journey on...
there is nothing wrong with
Rebuilding
Maybe he will be good to her
That Is so true Hunter. I
I think the real reason for
You haven't found happiness
Rebuilding
Here's the kick, rebuilding, and look out...
spinning
i second that... get out of
And thank you for reminding
rebuilding, dearheart, he is a
spinning
BINGO!
I kknow. This is all I have
here's your kick...