I just got a question
I just got a question
Inspired by another post...
In hindsight during the targeting phase when I got to hear all about his victimhood...and lordy, one day I have to memorialize that whole song and dance here for informational purposes...he had me convince HE WAS THE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE VICTIM!!! MANIPULATOR!!!! *since I can't call him the two word four syllable thing on here...involving the word Mother....
There were hints that the ex "FALSELY" accused him of physical abuse...and he told another story where another ex almost pulled a Lorena Bobbit on him...he landed in the hospital *she's my hero* BUT I digress...
He admitted to hitting the Lorena Bobbit girlfriend...and when I spoke with the ex wife she said he pulled a knife on her...
Mind you...honeylamb was so meek and mild...ha!
AND, there was only one really frightening RAGE episode. Yes, we'd argue and he'd blow his top, but he'd go out for air and it would blow over...it only got sick towards the end...well, its hard to explain yes, it was abusive psychologically but that part was stealth and I became aware in hindsight so I'm not discounting the abuse...
BUT I'm wondering in putting the pieces together I think he was/is capable of physical abuse.
We were together FOUR years...I'm not a marshmellow...I could stand my ground. I never got overtly disrespectful in general not out of subservience but because I feel there are boundaries when arguing...BUT nonetheless I wasn't this soft spoken waif not by a longshot...I think you can see I have a little spunk to me...
AND I don't think these women were waifs either...I mean look at Lorena...LOL and the ex wife was no waif...
BUT now I'm wondering...what stopped him from striking me.
I think if I stayed eventually it may have come to that? BUT four years isn't a blink of an eye...
Anyone?
Michele
Dear burrito
Because he was a teacher
this is a good question, bc i
Dazed...
michele115
Michelle115
OWL
He was withholding on you.
Time ... what stopped him