I had a conversation with myself today
I had a conversation with myself today
After my neighbor told me a number of people knew he was the town whore, and was surprised I had no clue, I became very angry again. I did a lot of reading on the net and abused a few CL narcs anonymously called them out...but really wanted to give my little narc an earful. I have completed as of this past Sunday one week of no contact. I wanted to write a letter but knew that it would fall on deaf ears...he can't feel or empathize and I wasn't looking for closure, just another opportunity to tell him what of POS I thought he was...somehow to validate that I KNOW what he is...go figure...such a conundrum. But I did come to a place this afternoon where I realize that at this point, NO I DON'T LOVE HIM. I've accepted that it was all an illusion. THAT HE INTENTIONALLY TARGETED ME. I remember how he would look at me almost like a wolf and I thought it was all about sedution?...whatever, I came to the point where I see I was a victim. I don't want to be in the victim mode forever, but I feel it is important for me to accept that, lick my wounds and move on. I know I will have ups and downs, but today marked a pivotal moment for me in that I realize that as of today, I DON'T LOVE HIM ANYMORE. What I am connected to now is emotional hurt. Pain. The sense of being knocked off balance by the fact that I really cannot imagine how predatory not only him, but HUMANS can be. I could never imagine this type of behavior. So, now I am connected to the hurt/pain of this experience, NOT HIM. Wondering what some healthy steps are to move past that. Anyone?
I was off to a great start.
Take care
Okay Blue
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I don't think you could have
almostlydia
michelle115
Sorry to hear
Oh Michelle
Totally on Same Wavelength Michele
morty
just the opposite
meadowbrook
here's another one for you
and another