I am caught up in self pity right now.
I am caught up in self pity right now.
I am caught up in self pity right now.
How the hell did my life end up like this??!!
I am 34 years old, I could have been married with children by now! I had so much love inside of me, so much light and joy!
I feel like a deflated balloon! I feel completely drained and empty inside! Is this how the Narc feels??!!
All I wanted was love! I am a loyal, honest, kind, one- man type of woman; the type that could love a man for a lifetime!
This feels like a nightmare! My life has become some sci-fi horror movie! No one would understand, so I try not to talk about it. I put on my happy face mask and make it through each day.
Life feels pointless right now. I feel like my life is one dark, long, endless tunnel. I used to be such a fighter. I don’t feel strong anymore. I am slipping into a depression.
I am so caught up in my own pain, I feel so envious and alienated from happy people. I feel disconnected. Like I am on my own deserted island watching life passing me by from a distance, as others live fully, in the moment. Oh, how I wish I could be one of those people.
It has only been 12 days of No-Contact, but that is irrelevant considering I forced myself to go No-Contact for a lifetime by filing for the No-Contact Order. It is final this time.
He was really out to destroy my soul! It is so strange, 2 weeks ago, we were so intimate. We were walking down the street, holding hands, rubbing noses, he was feeding me, opening doors for me, treating me to dinner. Strangers commented on how much of a cute couple we made. I was his princess, the smartest, kindest, funniest girl. His best friend. Lovemaking with him was sweet, tender, with tons of kissing and eye contact.
The next day, I was a worthless whore, ugly, old, skinny, disgusting, embarrassing to be seen with. He was so extreme and the Ultimate Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.
I know he is the monster, but his loving side was so loving. He was truly from another planet. Memories are flooding back and I am realizing the layers upon layers of deception.
I feel all alone, ugly, unlovable and self conscious. He did a number on me. It will be a long time before I can open up or trust another. Why? Why? Why me??!!
I have to pick up the pieces of my life all alone. So much to do, but I can barely get out of bed. This time it is hitting me worse than ever. Please tell me it gets much better than this in time!!!!
And that is
UGH!
It Does Get Better
I think its ok
There is light
Ms Lewis
Miss Lewis
It gets better with time and
I have no words.