How messed up is this?
How messed up is this?
When I was dating my narc ex I actually once suggested, in complete seriousness, that we go shopping so that he can "choose an outfit for me". I have NEVER felt I needed to a take a guy's advice on what to wear, and I know I have good style, people tell me that. What was I thinking??? He wouldnt even outright say things about my outfits, it was just a subtle feeling that he sometimes wished I dressed a certain way. And he would point things out in stores that were the complete opposite of my style and then I would feel self conscious about the things I wore.
Im having a really hard time understanding who the hell that girl was? I have always been independent and this is not something I would ever dream that I would say to a boyfriend.
The thing is I totally meant it. And he agreed (obviously). How desperate was I for his approval? And why? Its not like he even has the greatest style.
Ugh it sickens me. Anyone else like this with their ex?
Also I have never bought as much slutty underwear or as many dresses as I did when I was with him. Because I was always trying to look better, and look sexy. So sad.
sunnyide
Omg onwithmylife...me too!! I
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