How many of us set boundaries with the N?

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#1 Sep 22 - 9PM
New_Life
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How many of us set boundaries with the N?

I'm a bit curious about how many of us set boundaries, calling the N on their behavior?

If so, how did you go about presenting/addressing those issues with the N, and what was the response at the other end?

If you didn't set boundaries or call the N out on his/her behavior, what caused you to avoid doing that?

Sep 25 - 11PM
Secondtimearound
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I did

Sep 25 - 12PM
Kitka
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The only boundary to set with

Sep 25 - 3PM (Reply to #24)
Janie53
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Kitka

Sep 23 - 2PM
Phoenyx
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I did

Sep 23 - 12PM
New_Life
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Me? I'm three months out

Sep 23 - 3PM (Reply to #19)
Used
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new-life.

Sep 23 - 3PM (Reply to #20)
New_Life
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I'm not clear as to why you

Sep 23 - 3PM (Reply to #21)
Used
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new-life.

Sep 23 - 3PM (Reply to #16)
Allie
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I am over 3 years NC...

Sep 23 - 4PM (Reply to #17)
New_Life
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There seem to be many

Sep 25 - 1PM (Reply to #18)
Goldie
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This is what happens to many

Sep 23 - 9AM
zeldasar
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Same here; tried too many

Sep 23 - 8AM
Hunter
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This comment sounds like your

Sep 23 - 8AM
thebigpayback
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fearful and compliant

Sep 23 - 8AM
outoftheashes
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Calling out his behavior

Sep 22 - 10PM
NoMoreFreakBoy
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I tried to set boundaries

Sep 22 - 10PM
lessonlearned
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when i called him on being an a**

Sep 22 - 10PM
boomer14
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over and over...

Sep 22 - 10PM
Emerald11
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I tried "setting boundaries"

Sep 23 - 10AM (Reply to #6)
zeldasar
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Emerald11

Sep 23 - 2PM (Reply to #7)
New_Life
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I don't know if this will

Sep 22 - 11PM (Reply to #5)
New_Life
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Your experience sounds quite

Sep 22 - 10PM (Reply to #4)
Ruby
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They are like snakes. they

Sep 22 - 9PM
Ruby
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He would ignore me. whilst in

Sep 23 - 8AM (Reply to #2)
thebigpayback
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me too, ruby. i went from a