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How do I handle this?

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#1 Sep 8 - 7PM
Anonymous (not verified)
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How do I handle this?

Any advice on how to handle, deal with, act when ex-N comes to pick up my child? I don't even want to see him! He acts sooo cool as if he's done no wrong & I should be happy for him & his new found love!

Sep 8 - 7PM
Barbara (not verified)
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NanC

I'm moving this to a new thread This has been discussed MANY MANY times already here: http://www.lisaescott.com/2009/07/06/co-parenting-narcissist Please read through all the posts under MY BLOG and go through all the pages on MESSAGE BOARD NO REACTION. NONE - they 'feed' off of your emotions - good or bad -- so act like a robot, you could care less. BUSINESS ONLY. PERIOD. WHO CARES HOW HE ACTS???!!!! ~~~~~~~~~~~~ CLICK HERE: Articles & information for Narc Victims - Updated Daily "As soon as you feel that crazy sense of walking on eggshells, fending off N-rage, stop. Walk away." - Dr. M. Beck
Sep 8 - 8PM (Reply to #2)
NanC (not verified)
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Thanks, Barbara I'm new at

Thanks, Barbara I'm new at this...don't really know how this works. I'm just excited that I'm not alone and I found this website! Unless you've lived this life, friends and family don't really get it! (I never knew such cruel people existed). He suckered my "small town girl" mentality where you just assume everyone is honest and took me for granted. I am very bitter because he didn't only hurt me, he hurt my two young sons that adored and looked up to him. He literally walked out on all of us (after he forced my sons to call him "Dad"). How stupid of me to have allowed this...
Sep 8 - 9PM (Reply to #4)
tina
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u were not stupid..

just trusting, like the rest of us and like the rest of us, were used and lied to. My heart is heavy for you & your sons. As a mother, I truly believe no matter how much hell these self centered bastards put us through, when we see what they do to our innocent children, it truly rips our heart and soul out. Be strong friend. One day at a time. Hugs:)
Sep 8 - 9PM (Reply to #3)
Barbara (not verified)
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you are NOT STUPID!

How stupid of me to have allowed this... YOU ARE NOT STUPID YOU DID NOTHING WRONG these guys fool even professionals with their mind control, verbal hypnosis and manipulation. You were prey. That's all. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ CLICK HERE: Articles & information for Narc Victims - Updated Daily "As soon as you feel that crazy sense of walking on eggshells, fending off N-rage, stop. Walk away." - Dr. M. Beck