How do I get him to Hate me?

I would rather have him hate than hoover. If you don't recall, I'm the one that woke up and left my exNH, it's my 7 week anniversary today!
I am LC, his texts and calls have dwindled down to a trickle. When he has our kids, he still pretends to be them to sneak in texts. I am a cold hearted bitch when it comes to dealings with him. I opened the flood gates yesterday with one simple text asking if I could drop off the kids early last night....he replies with 6 texts, none having anything to do with dropping off the kids ::eye roll::
He still manages to get in the "no one loves you more than I do" and my favorite "I hope you will come back soon". Not going to happen. I am not going to subject myself to any more abuse in my life. I am not going to be raped by someone who supposedly loves you ever again. Going back is NOT an option. I have such hatred towards this toad.
Anyhoo, last night go to pick up the kids and they weren't at pick up yet, so I get out of the car to stretch and air out since it's so hot here....they get there and of course exNH goes in for the hug. Seriously?! He's tried this before. I stand as straight as a board, hands to my side and he's hugging me ::barf:: What is going through their little pea brain? You get NO reaction from me and you think I'm giving you supply??? Is this supposed to wear me down some how? Not in the least, in fact I'm grossed out by the idea of him being that close to me.
Since I can't talk to him, is there any ideas on how to get him to finally go away? I hear that once he finds NS he'll disappear....maybe I can order him a mail order bride ;-) Maybe I should find a handsome young man to accompany me for the exchanges ;-) LOL...can't do that exNH would probably snap for sure.