Hoovering Question

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#1 Oct 29 - 12PM
lkle85
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Hoovering Question

I went through the forums, and the blogs trying to find more information on hoovering. I just wanted to know when it will stop. My ex has been emailing me at work for the past 3 days. I haven't responded to any of them. I just want to know what the phases are.. so far he seemed worried because he couldn't get a hold of me. .Then he starts to bribe me with gifts to get a response.. now he is reminiscing about past events in our relationship. Again I haven't responded to him at all.. I'm assuming that he'll email again but will be pretty upset because i haven't replied back.. but will this ever stop? I've blocked all his emails that I know he has but he sends from different email accounts.. its ongoing.. when will he get the hint? and when will it stop.

I can't change my work email but I'm taking the steps to prevent him from messaging.

Nov 5 - 1AM
Amazed
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About hoovering...

Nov 4 - 12PM
laxl
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a little scared...

Nov 4 - 9AM
shock and awe.some
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Hello I85

Nov 5 - 1AM (Reply to #8)
Amazed
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Shock and awe I love how you deal with it!!

Oct 29 - 5PM
Done sourcing
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It varies, but never forgot

Oct 30 - 6AM (Reply to #5)
lkle85
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Triangulation

Nov 5 - 1AM (Reply to #6)
Amazed
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Triangulation--you are right about the respect

Oct 29 - 4PM
rosedewittbukater
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Hi Ikle

Oct 29 - 1PM
lkle85
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Actually..

Nov 4 - 3PM (Reply to #2)
Janie53
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Ikle85