His text message

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#1 Oct 11 - 5PM
FAITH19693
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His text message

My ex finally moved out and I want to share what he texted me, tell me what you think."I do love you,always have and always will, to much as happend and you can`t let it go. I needed you to want me ,I never wanted to have to turn to other women, I needed it from you." He has been by a few times trying to have sex but I tell him no and of course he gets all mad at tells me figures you never wanted me that`s why we won`t work out. He calls and try to be nice and asks if I need food or anything, he always thinks money will fix it.

Oct 12 - 7PM
Briseis
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What do I think?

He needs to go and take a good long running jump for himself. This is classic hoovering. Every Narc uses that line "I love you and always will" which means, "You bitch, now I have to go break in another victim. Poor me." He is pathetic and useless and a three headed pimple on the ass of Mankind. I also think you are just beginning a new and much better life without his sorry pathetic self to drag you down :)
Oct 12 - 3AM
phoenix and django
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this is so funny how stupid they are

the affairs, my last husband had 3, and even lived with one of the women for 3 months. he hid out, and i did not divorce him, because i wanted to go get my 30k jeep i had paid cash for, and he had tried to take my name off the vehicle, BUT, it was a community property state, so my name did not have to be on the title. i pulled up to the house with the police, showed the my marriage license, and drove off with my vehicle and left him stranded 3 states away. whats really funny is his girlfriend tried to report it stolen and she was in the background telling him what to say, well you can imagine what i said, i am tossing her shit out the window now so you can kiss my ass. Yeah, my jeep I paid cash for. He cried like a baby! Got suicidal! they are so stupid, and their women. his affairs -- i knew this was about him, and the need to validate himself. its funny when you really think about it, now ladies, what if we had to go screw anything that had a pecker on it, so we could feel like real women. i am laughing my butt off, because they think this is what they need, and then they FEEL NOTHING! OMG!THEY FEEL NOTHING! Dear Lord, I would hate to spend all that energy and could not feel or get off on getting laid! okay before i got D&D, the last night my last xbfP picked a fight, and said how he needed to basically go out and get himself in situations where women desired him, this was who he was as a person. now picture this i am making the bed and he is rambling, trying to pick a fight because he is going to "Shang hi" me i believe was his words were on an email i found after he left. of course i had no idea what was coming down the pipe, i was working my buns off among many other things that were happening in my life. and he starts in with this stupid conversation trying to make me jealous. i remind him as long as he is with me i am the one that deserves his affection and its not cool to put himself in these types of situatuion, and then i ask him why he would do this? Of course no answer, i was to busy really not caring, because i just a not the jealous type, i know if i have an asshole and another woman gets him, oops look she just got her an asshole too. anyway heres the best part, he had not worked in 2.5yrs and i have told him get a job or he would have to move out, and that i had never had a problem with man of mine having a job! well he thought he was going to get really sassy and said "well you should of stayed with them." well ladies between you and me he shouldn't of said that because i said "yeah your right they all had bigger dicks than you". by then i was mad, and by the way i had never been mean to him, but i got mad, You shoud of seen his face, that backfired on him. I also said i wished i had never met you! His biboyfriend had just flown from Africa so he could pack him up, and steal things from my house. Yep that happened to me! He has been gone a year and a half! The only fight we really had, but he asked for it. And i have never heard from him but some sneaky emails where he sends a message in the email address @yahoo.com or @gmail.com. I think that guy looks at his emails all the time, so the only way is to send me a message with a new email address. hes sneaky, but not that smart. Now i laugh, because after he left i found the porn, and phone numbers to old girlfriends that were god ugly, but would give him shelter. One was a straight up crack whore that had lost custody of her child, and the kid is from some daddy when she was out prostituting herself. He is the one who told me this, and he used to call his exwife a whore pig. i put a stop to that, and said why are you so mad when this real prostitute who is on her knees making living, and has lost her child, you seem to think its okay for her to call here and poor girl you need to talk to her. sounds like a booty call to me. But your ex is taking care of your 3 kids, and you have not paid a dime of child support, and she i the whore? She has not lost her kids for prostitution or drugs! Well thats when the relationship started to take a dive. Also I said I have listened about your ex for the last 3 months, I do not want to here anymore about her. It makes my life toxic. So stop it, and she is taking care of your kids. He would say, before even this conversation, my ex wife would really like you. I would say good because you need to try some forgiveness, you will always have the kids between you guys, this was before he deserted them. You see when your not jealous, and i am not Jealous, it loses all their power with us. The night he was picking the fight he saying "POOR ROBIN" i cant talk to her! i turned and looked at him and said "You need talk to her, then TALK TO HER! In other words if all your going to do is talk the talk. He knew how stupid he sounded then, but he knew I meant it too. He sat there bewidered, because he loved the jealousy power game over me. But I was not caught up in it. If I have to keep a man hostage so I know I am a woman, someone put me out of my misery. I am a helluva women, even if I cant spell sometimes on this blog. My point, who cares who they bed down with, its just a matter of time where there stuck with someone who does not love them. The last one he will probably end up with is someone who is younger who will leave him and take him for everything and be scewing around on him, male or female, or some old bar fly crack whore.(PATHETIC)The writing is on the wall. So really he loses all the power in the end of the game. By the way i will be taking care of myself ladies, thermage, yoga, spas, mochas, and yep some topless beaches for me girls, because i am just that sexy too! I will do all this because my money wont be going on N,P,APD, that are mooch's! Maybe they will just end up hating women and turn gay. Yuck, some of these gay men are not thinking very far down the line, i mean there are very few OLD attractive gay men. The women have them beat there too. Okay who's team do you want to be on?? Play the tape all the way through girls. I dont care who they orgasm with now, they cant feel it, I know I am better off because I CAN!! Yeah! this blog is invigorating, and freeing sisters! Good Night!
Oct 11 - 6PM
solost
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yeah

yeah, didn't you know you were supposed to just FORGET about all the other women he f*cked behind your back and just make nice with him all the time? Of course it's YOUR fault he did it dear.
Oct 11 - 6PM
kiwi10
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I never wanted to have to

I never wanted to have to turn to other women he didnt have to do anything.
Oct 11 - 7PM (Reply to #3)
agnesmurphy17
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You forced him

You forced him to have sex with another women. And he suffered all the way through it. And, if you were hurt. Oh well, you have nobody to blame but yourself. Remember, he suffers more than you. You know, whenever I agreed with my N. Oh yes, I understand that you are such a kind, and good & loving person. He would would accuse me of being sarcastic. And I would say, How so? I am repeating to you what you say to me. And, also, my N would become very angry when I did not "mirror" him. He told me that I was a poor conversationalist because I did not repeat back to him what he said. And, then when I did repeat back to him his nonsense as if true, he accuses me of being sarcastic. And, when I agreed with him that I was crazy, stupid, and everything was all my fault. That too was not good enough. He would say, You say the words but you do not mean it in your heart. There was no winning. I can hardly believe what I did to keep the peace. And it never kept the peace. Just how much does one have to be degraded? It's limitless.
Oct 11 - 6PM (Reply to #2)
MsVulcan500
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Very true, Fierflie

He didn't have to do anything. He's making it your fault, but saying it in such a way that maybe you'll feel bad for him and have sex with him anyway. And you'll feel bad for him that he's such a victim. He's just shifting blame, plain and simple.