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He's just 'vanished'

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#1 Sep 20 - 1PM
Never Again
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He's just 'vanished'

I don't understand.

Sep 20 - 4PM
Soldier Girl
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Never

Was there a hint in his last text ? That must have been a shock for you hope you are okay and looking after you !
Sep 20 - 4PM
Hunter
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Idealize,Devalue,

Idealize,Devalue, Discard! Silence= peace!! Look, who just disappears? I'll tell you , a selfish ,self-centered asshole!! Even he he is with another, any normal person would be man enough to tell the truth, and be there for you to heal from their breakup. He is not normal! Besides, when he's bored with this new round of supply he'll be back!! Expect him back around the Holiday's, tis the season for a Narc to cause pain!! Scrooge is mild compared to this, at least he comes around in the end!! Hunter
Sep 20 - 2PM
needing2know
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What do you mean ? He just

What do you mean ? He just vanished?
Sep 20 - 2PM (Reply to #2)
Never Again
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posted in the wrong spot

but he sent one last text and viola. gone. i don't know where he is. who he's with or what he's doing. it means there's someone else, doesn't it?
Sep 20 - 2PM (Reply to #3)
needing2know
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If he is gone, your better

If he is gone, your better off! Who cares what he is doing or he who may be doing it with! Think about yourself not him. I know it hurts, but you have to move on, you didn't stop him from moving on, so don't let him stop you.
Sep 20 - 9PM (Reply to #4)
Never Again
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it's just mind blowing

self centered asshole. i couldn't have said it better myself. i don't wish ill will on anyone...but i do with him. all this shit he put me through.
Sep 20 - 9PM (Reply to #5)
Unfreakinreal
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2 things...

1. He will be back. And then he will vanish again. Cycle, rinse, repeat. 2. Karma can be a real bitch... My XN had a $6000 bicycle stolen the day before he was to compete in a huuuuge sporting event that he spent 2 years training for. Out of state. No bike, no race. It was awesome! Threw him into a nasty depression for a good week. Xoxo