HELP HELP HELP!

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#1 Aug 18 - 7AM
driftingsister
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HELP HELP HELP!

He rung four times off a private number, I ignored them all, he left 2 voicemails, I checked them when I was around a friend. They were pretty much manipulating me to talk to him and that he needs me and will do anything for me, then I come to my computer and he's e-mailed me, shown below:

It'll be three week tomorrow that you rang at 1am after being out drinking with Holly and then coming over to my house. You were extremely intoxicated, to the point of not remembering when you came over and if we had sex. After going to my AA meeting I stated in a text that you coming to see me that afternoon to drop something of to me wasn't having the space that you asked for. You then replied with asking if you had ruined your chances with me for the future. That is the last thing you have said to me in person or via a text message. My birthday came and went, nothing. You then have some girl ring my cellphone (whom I don't remember giving my number to!) and have her threaten to take me to the police for harassment over say 15 odd texts?!?! Is not arriving at my house on multiple occasions drunk in the early hours of the morning, ringing 15+ times per day and waking my flatmate not more harassment? Yet I let it go. The fact you haven't even ended anything with me, given me any form of closure or asked me to go away is not cool. After 8 months of us battling to keep us, this is how you react? You just walk away and forget that I exist?? Remember when you had to have kate contact me to ask that I come see you because you weren't coping and needed to see me at least once more to have closure, well how about giving that back??? I am going through that and you seem to just not give a damn. I've told you I'd do anything for you and to have you back, but if it was to leave you alone then fine. But have the decency to ask me yourself than hide behind someone else. I did. I still have your letters and photos, oh your hacky sack too. If you wish to never ever see me again, then we should swap those for my sisters necklace. I gave that to you because I love you and thought that we would work through this together and grow from it. Now you put it all on me because I joined a web site. I told you that you could delete it..etc, but you tell your friends I am the bad guy blah, blah blah. Told them yet that's how we met? Bet not, so please don't rubbish me for it. I want you back and am willing to go to any length for you and us, wipe the slate clean and work together. I wish you were, you said you were and your last emails only a month ago said that too. So please reply to me, and talk to me. I wish not to fight, just to be adults and sort this out. I hate this feeling of bad tension. The fact you have blocked me on every social media aspect and probably have blocked me on your phone is not action of love, it's action of not caring. Running away wont fix anything my love.

I love you dearly

WTF, he is totally trying to manipulate me.....

Aug 18 - 11AM
spinning
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Sis, remember the TRUTH

about this guy. Isn't the 'sister' non-existant? He's a nutjob who will say ANYTHING. Do his ACTIONS match his pretty words?? Also, if you really read this HE'S BLAMING EVERYTHING ON YOU. How convenient. Hit the delete button and stay NC. "Eight months of battle" is eight months too many. He's looking for more of the same and more to blame you for. Don't bite. Stay strong and stay NC. This guy's a real nut. Most sincerely, (not) spinning. IT'S A CHOICE AND I CHOOSE ME. LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WASTE ANOTHER MINUTE ON AN ILLUSION. THE SICK FREAK IS THE REALITY AND HE'S NOT WORTH IT!

spinning

Aug 18 - 11AM
BadaBing
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staying

won't fix anything either so might as well RUN =) NC Works if you work it!
Aug 18 - 7AM
58 and going strong
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Sister, why did you read this

Sister, why did you read this at all?? Delete, Delete, Delete and Delete does the magic! NC -NC -NC - - and more NC. I know it is so hard when you get bombed, but try to love yourself. Consider him a highly contagious virus - would you expose yourself? And your soul deserves the same protection as your body! Hang in there, you are loved, but it is here that the love comes from. Big hug!