he was from NV

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#1 Apr 9 - 12AM
cecelia
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he was from NV

and I pretty sure thats all he ever did. Envy others.

He pretended to be a Christian
He had me stay with his padres.
He said all the right things.
He was a BB & did steroids.
I didn't know how harmful that was until now...
He was a liar from the start.
He said I was the only one, bought the plane tickets & lavished me with all the "right" things/gifts/words/b.s.

His ex wrote me, she was the crazy one, not him he said, turns out he had been seeing her to have action, yet had me at his parents in his hometown, yet he professed the same love for me as he did for her?

He wanted to opena gym, with my loans & wanted me to move to his town. He said the same to her. We spoke after I'd never heard from him after I called him out & said I was bailing on the next trip to his town (which he'd already bought the ticket for).

Apparently they got to work it out. I was jealous.
Almost a yr. later I celebrate.
I was not tricked...I was fooled by false love,
but that was a risk worth taking & none of should be
ashamed for that. That just means the real deals comin' round the corner-I praise God for the authentic promises.

Initially I'd written about 4 pages on this thing, but it erased & I figured that was a sign, these people aren't worth our efforts, its time to get to know ourselves & not the plastic hollow boys who wish they were something else.
I am so grateful for this message board and perhaps I'll get all the emails he sent us both & put them on here, its helpful to have a script.

I can't believe he used God though, all the prayers, Bible studies everything-I mean, why use the Lord? Family said he was a con artist. Yes I have to admit, I was nothing to him, maybe a temp pay check. I still can't believe how scammed emotionally I had been tricked for.

When he went on his "trip" to see his "best friend" he accussed me of not being a true Christian for doubting him & that I didn't deserve to be be an instructor of Bible studies & that I had no faith & was not a real Christian. I am still in awe over his rant.

When I took the big chance & called the ex, (she had put her # in an email she sent me) that was the end of it...yet she & I spoke, she said they'd always spoke on the phone even if I had been in his town, (for weeks at a time I might add) and that he had just left her bed. He and I never got that close. He said he wanted to honor God and do it right by the standards of the Bible-what the heck?!

Then she said that when he had come back from the downstairs to her he stated he had "felt guilty". they had just had intercourse she said earlier. I wish I had not thoughts about it, but I am still confused and thought he was NPD, but I had been so weak for him & thought it was just challenges of love $ faith, not of a liar. Everyone seems so much better now that I have him as a comparison. What sad is I think about him every now and then. But in time that too shall pass, in Jesus name I pray, for us all to have the memory washed away & the wisdom to remain...

May God hold all of us close in Jesus name.

Apr 11 - 3PM
deecbee
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Amazing. The similarities

Amazing. The similarities I'm finding between so many different people's stories are crazy. Mine was also a (wannabe) bodybuilder who dabbled in steroids in his early 20's. Then became a devout Buddhist after a string of bad relationships and got really self-righteous over it. Then he threw that out just as he has with everything else in his life. I'm sorry you went through that. Unfortunately, many people who shout their religion from the rooftops are actually hiding behind it.
Apr 11 - 4PM (Reply to #2)
michele115 (not verified)
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deecbee

Yes it is startling and prior to going through this myself I would have never imagined the number of individuals suffering from this affliction hiding behind various religions/forms of spritualim - but it does happen and for them these areas are other realms to obtain supply.