He texted me

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#1 Feb 22 - 1PM

dabussard

He texted me

Getting ready to celebrate 8 months NC. And , I got a text last night "Hey, can we talk sometime". In the past, I would have had a flutter in my stomach and my heart would have raced. I would have done anything to run up there that exact minute to hear what he has to say...

Nope not this time... It was delete, and then what went thru my head was... "Dang the girls on the forum are right"... They never leave... And, I went to the computer to put the 90 day block back on... I was mad at myself for losing track of time and letting him be able to text me again...

lol.. These guys are textbook...

I have come to far in my recovery to ever go back...

#2 Feb 22 - 6PM

matahari

Some of you walked into my

Some of you walked into my life and made it better....others walked out and made it fantastic!!

#3 Feb 22 - 2PM

Sparrow

his sheep..........that's

his sheep..........that's classic! Too funny Again, great job! :)

#4 Feb 22 - 1PM

Maggster

Thanks for posting

and it was great for me to hear your strength to remain unaffected by his hoovering but I have to say the thought of having to be on guard for ever is so daunting. This nightmare will never, ever end.

#5 Feb 22 - 2PM (Reply to #7)

dabussard

Maggester

I was right where you are right now... He was so far in my head and heart that I thought I would never break free. The mods say that it takes time. They are so right... Time, therapy, and alot of reading about their sickness helped me get thru.. Reading on this forum about how their words don't match their actions and comparing that to my relationship with the N. And that we are just an object to them has kept me NC as well. It will end as you grow stronger and ignore him and his childish games.

#6 Feb 22 - 9PM (Reply to #8)

Deidre40

I'm so so so proud of you! I

I'm so so so proud of you! I remember a few months back, your struggles...and I'm so happy to hear this!!! OMG... He must be stunned! HAHAHA! Great! I remember how abusive and horrible your ex was. So thrilled to see that you are over him...and have moved on. NC is the only way to bring it about. Only way to get out of pain, is to go through it. So...you did it!! BRAVA!

#7 Feb 23 - 8AM (Reply to #9)

dabussard

Deidre40

It is still a work in progress... I used to think that he was hot and I was so attracted to him.. He ruined that with each abusive thing that he has done to me. What also has helped is changing up when I go to the gorcery and the gas station. Not running into him has helped me alot too. I keep telling myself that I have worked to hard on my recovery and I don't want to ever go back into that fog ever again. Have to admit he creeps into my head sometimes... And, those times are still hard for me... But, I try to remember the bad times and not the good...

#8 Feb 22 - 1PM

Sparrow

Excellent job! And thanks

Excellent job! And thanks for sharing this news, so many others can benefit. You are right.......they never go away. Just when you think they are gone. Poof! They reappear. It's like a herpes flair up. :) *******Did I just say that? LOL*******

#9 Feb 22 - 2PM (Reply to #4)

dabussard

Sparrow

lol... Yep like a herpes flair up.. love it... Another reason to stay NC... Don't want any Std's either... My Ex N would sleep with anything... I have always felt sorry for his sheep... lol...

#10 Feb 22 - 9PM (Reply to #5)

Deidre40

sheep...lmao!!! i can't say

sheep...lmao!!! i can't say it enough. i'm just so happy for you right now! {{{huge hugs}}} wish we could all celebrate together with you!

#11 Feb 22 - 1PM

Hunter

Delete,Delete,Delete.. Good

Delete,Delete,Delete.. Good Job.. Hunter

#12 Feb 22 - 2PM (Reply to #2)

dabussard

Hunter

I could have never grown this strong without you and the rest of the mods... Thanks so much!!

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