he came over
he came over
I was doing so well today. I felt very strong after writing on this board and receiving replies. I knew I could do NC. I felt calm and peaceful for the first time in a very long time.
I cancelled my email account, so he can no longer email me. He still can leave messages on my cell phone, but I just kept the phone off and didn't check my messages. So I was doing NC.
I knew he would eventually come over to my apartment, but I figured he would do so this weekend as he has a heavy work schedule during the week. I planned to not answer the door, and knew I could do it.
But instead he showed up at my door this evening, totally unexpected. I was feeling so strong... Even though it was unexpected, I was able to not answer the door. But he rang the doorbell for a full 10 minutes. I was afraid he would call the police thinking I was dead, so I finally went down and put a sign in the window that said, "Go Away".
He then said, "I have good news," and foolish me, I opened the door. Interacting with him completely took away my strong mood, and I was back to being a mess...
I feel so defeated... It was so amazing and rare to feel a strong sense of self again after so long of feeling lost and destroyed. And he took it away. I honestly didn't expect him to come over...
Did you enjoy that
Thank You!
I want to heal, the true
spinning
I have done similar to this
You were doing well and this
Journey on...
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I feel for you
Jeff