He appeared
He appeared
I metioned that my ex contacted me via work number a few weeks ago. Last week a recieved a tuble of texts and calls.
Ive been hiding out here just reading.
In one text he said he called because he loved me and it went on and on.
It got to me. I decided to do the unthinkable and I searched him in local dating sites. Guess what I found? Yep him looking to date. I always know better. I was furious!!! I texted him breaking 16 weeks of NC to tell him that he was the most selfish hurtful person I had ever known. That I knew about the dating and not to bother me anymore. I told him it was sick.
He texted back and said how dare I judge him for wanting to socialize and be able to forget me. He said what am I supposed to do suffer thinking about you every second. He said I am selfish....maybe I am.
Im so twisted. Do I want anyone to suffer? No. Do I think maybe it wouldnt hurt him a bit to feel some remorse....oh man... I can't believe this is me. He cant feel anything.
He says he is betrayed and heartbroken!!!! I didnt do anything except kick him out when I caught him in yet another lie....Damn it!!!! Is he betrayed that I refused to be his punching bag or his door mat??
What I think is that if you say you are sorry you do not go and repeat the same behavior over and over.
He lied. That is on him. That was my only condition in reconciling with him. Dont Freakin lie to me. He lied. I am gone.
I am going to change this number somehow. I am so tired of being sick enough myself to believe that he loved me.
Its exhausting. There is no hope here. There is no love in this man.
Today I feel so defeated. So lost. I want to run..I want to run until I collapse. Please help me....I dont know what to do anymore. It would be our anniversary tomorrow.
Im losing my grip.
I did something completely childish. When I saw him on the dating website I signed up too. Just to make a point...i think maybe just to hurt him a little. What does that make me....I feel like such an ass.
I never brought up his shortcomings for fear I may hurt him to deeply. I lost my marbles and put myself up on that site. I am disgusted with myself. In my head I thought ok if you have no heart..im gonna not have one too and move on. Needless to say the responses put me in bed most of the day Sunday crying.
I see the life I could have..its here....im wasting it longing for something that doesn't belong.....
Someone pray for me... I just don't know what to do anymore.
Betrayed
truetotruth
Helldweller 2
One simple thing would
Block phone
Just a suggestion, but does
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
Well . . . apparently, it's
No asking back
You just DID learn. It just
Bris
That feeling of OUTRAGE,
Outrage
They stay with you a long
We were together seven
How do ya like this mine
SOI
yep
Crazy ones they all are....
I am sorry....
Still hurting Thanks