no such thing to a Narc...the are entitled to anything anyone else has...they are never grateful for anything...mine went start raving when he was cut out of his parent's trust fund..even though he had bled them dry for years..'that was MY money...i'm entitled to it..'...total parasites......
My N asked me for money and accepted it with open hands when I offered him some. Now he is with a woman with a very rich family and I am sure this is the only reason he is involved with her, besides the fact that she will do anything for him, including ignoring my exposing him to her. Ah, all's well that ends well right!
small claims court... do it.
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The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein
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mine is all about money...once when we were in an argument aobut him toying with MY financial security and livlihood, he got up in my face and screamed at me....'i've thrown away many a fortune, bitch'.....true enough...but none of them were his own.......
i hate his guts....
....and it appears to be common knowledge that he married his second wife for her money. She has money and he spends it and forces them into debt (possibly worse). He needs/wants money and status and power way more than he wants or needs sex. It is just way too easy to jack off to a stack of 50's. Much more exciting and satisfying than sex with a real, human, caring, compassionate woman.
My exN gambled weekly,spent money over his budget,sells steroid to support his spending habits. Made a lot of money from selling steroids in the black market he paid cash for a used BMW M3-his only "love" he once stated. He had credit card debt, bad credit. Expensive tastes in clothes-to support his hidden dating life-i'm sure. And gifts to me were very few and far in between.
both Sexual and Intellectual Narcs can be gold diggers...
gold-digging is an equal opportunity forum of abuse
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The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein
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Yes!
I never really thought of it that way but my N was using me for money. In the end (like all of us) he has everything we ever bought together and I have none of it.
My family always said they didn't understand why he got new stuff (game systems, exercise equipment, 'toys') all the time and I was still wearing clothes from high school. It seems easy now to look back and see I shouldn't have let it happen but I just didn't catch on fast enough. Everything was a "gift" to him.
Oh well. I will always be a hard worker and make a living because I love my job, I love helping people. He, on the other hand, well, he's in a financial crisis he brought on himself.
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loans.......
yes
p.s.
moving on
hell yes...
Gold Diggers
Mine was an intellectual narcissist.....
money /status hungry
both
gold diggers
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