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#1 Aug 28 - 10PM
malloryforest
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GF contacted me

Ok girls, you will love this one. So STBXNPH left to fly the friendly skies back to his home after visitation. Checked my emails, and who contacted me?? The GF. She is moving out of my house, and so are her girls. I was told that the kids weren't living there. SHe is sick of his lies and is done with him. She is getting all of her stuff out of the house before he gets back home. I actually felt for her tonight. Her kids just moved into the house and decorated their rooms for the school year around the same time STBXNH started pleated with me about reconciliation, and about visiting the kids every other week instead of once a month.

What pond scum. I can't believe how sick this man is. We exchanged a few emails. She has tried breaking up with him at least three times since the kids and I left, and he keeps sweet talking her back into his life, while at the same time he keeps begging for reconciliation. I am so glad she is out of the house. I hope she keeps her kids as far away from the creep as possible.

She is in for her own struggle. Hope she can maintain NC. I know I can.

Aug 30 - 10AM
Carolyn
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Save the e-mails the GF sent

Save the e-mails the GF sent you. you might use them if he is coming for more visitation. i don't know what you think about this but should you think about forwarding her e-mails to him. if you have to go to court arround custody issues it looks like you are honest and sent him the e-mails for transparency. you don't know her and your first responsibility is to yourself and your children. this guy is on a downward spiral and depending on his age he might be entering their big self-destruct period. you are a decent person and you don't sound like you want her harmed but you need to do a build-up of materials against this monster just in case you need them.
Aug 29 - 1AM
malloryforest
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STBXNH just got home to empty house

He just got home to his empty house. He emails me to tell me that GF is finally gone. Isn't it funny and ironic. It happened liked he planned. Now he can sleep peacefully tonight. He will call me in the morning. He is in for a shock when I have N with him, and he finds that I sent GF his message about how he is peacefully sleeping now that his GF and children have moved out of his house in the middle of the night. This man can not get any worse. Now I truly believe his is a sociopath.
Aug 28 - 11PM
grossot
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gf contacted you

Damn! Your P is having a hell of a year! Who the hell can lose that many sources of supply in this short amount of time. He'd better re-think his strategy. But wait - this is probably your fault somehow, mallory! Prepare yourself. When he gets home to see she's gone - you will be his main source of ns. You have been doing an awesome job with nc. But my prediction is its going to get even more ugly (don't ask me how; only a narc could tell you that!). Document everything. Notify lawyer of everything, like Barbara said. You are going to have to be even stronger at least until he gets another gf. When my N's gf left the state for vacation without him, I thought I was going to have to commit myself so I wouldn't hurt him! The control and abuse and threats magnified x1000! Same for the gf's husband - she was calling him 4x's a day wanting him back! PSYCHO! Keep posting. Let us know how things progress! nolongercontrolled

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nolongercontrolled

Aug 28 - 10PM
Barbara (not verified)
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mallory

OOOO send to the lawyer IMMEDIATELY... send her these: http://www.crisiscounseling.com/Articles/Psychopath.htm http://www.cassiopaea.com/cassiopaea/psychopath.htm wish her luck, then block her... she may show these to him but WHATEVER... at this point he's TOAST!
Aug 28 - 11PM (Reply to #2)
quietude (not verified)
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wow

This just shows that they treat everyone the same. They just keep leaving countless victims along the way...sick, sick, sick. Hope this was somewhat validating for you in a way, mallory...but I agree, you never know so I'd block her from now on.
Aug 29 - 3AM (Reply to #3)
Fawn
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Awesome

Mallory, that has got to feel like some retribution for you. I do feel sorry for her kids though. Man his life is totally crumbling around him. He deserves every bit of it too. I bet YOU are the one who will sleep peacefully tonight!