getting over it
getting over it
The question that plaques all of us. When will I get over it? I have pondered this over and over for a about 6 or 8 months now. I think the answer is you never really "get over it" how do you get over someone singling you out so that they can destroy you from the inside out.? Nope I don't think you get over it.
I think what yoi do is get on with it. After however long it takes you to process it you simply start to get on with your life. You notice things little by little sometimes the improvements so microscopic no one really notices. In my case I continue to read about my codependency and try to be more aware of when I'm engaging in codependent behavior, My life is returning to normal. One year ago the discard began and I found myself locking myself ion the bathroom about every hour just so I could hide from my family and have a few minutes to cry.
So will I ever get over this? Hell no! You don't get over someone you loved and trusted brutally attacking you but your life doesn't stop and you eventually get on with it for some this happens quickly for others it takes a long while but it does eventually come for us all in time. Hopefully you have learned more abnout yorself during that time. I have learned more about myself than I ever wanted to know. Lol. Maybe that's why this was brought back into to my life so many years later.
Just my take on that question that we all continually ask ourselves
The Rape of the Mind
Absolutely Gettinbetter
Yeah how ironic that he ended
Chiming In...
Cancer analogy
Nope we will never get over
Gettinbetter
Remember the Rats
We get over it when we
Recovery sites
"My life is returning to normal"
Never............we will
You are right GB...you don't get over it
I do not want the peace which passeth understanding, I want the understanding which bringeth peace.
--Helen Keller
GB
I really shouldn't type on my
This brings up a point that
Swan
OMENS were sent to me
Bad omens
thanks susan32
Bless you too!
For everyone the answer is
quite same is my own
For me...
gettinbetter, sherbear
You're welcome Freaked
Yep Sherbear they appear to
Great thread!! Love the
Gettinbetter and Swan, your
I love this