Fish in the water

We are always asking why the Narc did this, why the Narc did that? What will they do next?

Fish live in the water. We don't ask why...they just do because they are fish and that's where fish live.

Narcs do things because they are Narcs. The confusion comes because they look like other people. They acted like someone we wanted to be with. That's what Narcs do. Spinning talks about putting on the Reality Goggles...and when we do we see what we are really looking at. A Narc. Nothing more. Nothing different. And they do what they do because they are Narcs.

The problem truly is that we can't see the truth! Why we want to believe them is the issue. They can't be trusted, but we don't want to admit that. We stay stuck in the wanting to believe.

Fish have to stay in the water to survive. And Narcs have to lie cheat and steal to be Narcs. Fish can't walk on land, and Narcs can't do normal. Why they lie, why they are disordered, isn't really important at all. What is important is that we don't know how to breakthru the hurt and confusion and finally see the truth!

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