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The Fefe story 6/29/2013

I had come out of a bad marriage,and even tho I had been out of it a year I was still very hurt over what my now ex husband had done to me. And even tho we had been apart for a year he still came around for sex, and that was all it was, after spending a year licking my wounds, My step sister told me of a online date site, I had never done anything like that before, But I went ahead and signed up.
It was new to me and very exciting. I talk to a few online and even learned about yahoo chat. But there was this Guy on there that stood out from the rest, He was so handsome and he was there then he was gone.
three weeks had passed then one day there he was again.
so I went to go have a look at his profile,
It was all about his love for the lord;
I thought WOW, now he must be an okay guy to write about the lord on a date site, Well I wrote and told him how much I like his profile, next thing you know he had me over on yahoo chat.
the next day we talked on line then he gave me his number.
His voice was to die for;
And he was so funny to talk too. I like him from the start, But he told me he was interested in another girl he had been talking too but she lived far away.
Then he had told me about a break up with his GF she was just a drunk and didn't take care of her kids, and he didnt drink. ( RED FLAGS) But of course I don't even think twice, WELL he told me how he was a preacher and help feed the homeless in his city which was 30 min away from mine.
I always wanted to help do that sort of thing, so I was interested in his work. But I didn't want to think there would be anything between us because of this one girl he keep talking about ( red flag) I was being baited and didn't even know it. Well we talked all day and into the night every night, I mean every time we hung up he would call back 10 mins later. ( RED FLAGS) But he always talked about this girl and how much he liked her.. ( RED FLAGG) as the weeks went on, I had grew funner of him, then decided I would go help feed the homeless with him..

I drove down one Sat and meet him, WOW he has every thing I thought ( OH BOY)
Of Course as the story goes . I became his soul mate, his one true love, after 6 weeks he was talking marriage, (RED FLAG) He came home with me one time to meet the family at a church reunion, and he stayed the night, well he then told me he had lost his job because he had broke his back ( RED FLAG) Now during all this time I had been laid off work so we had nothing but time on our hands, so we were stuck together like glue. Then one night he told me they were turning off his phone because he could not pay be bill he was short of money ( RED FLAG) Of course I paid it, I couldn't have him not talking too me RIGHT???? well then the big night came when we had sex,, we were laying there in the heat of the moment and he said OH MY GOD THE SKIN MIGHT FALL OFF I said to myself what did he say? strange??? ( RED FLAG)) then the sneaking around snooping came, he went thru everything I had , when I found out I called him a scammer and he got out rage and left walking, of course I went and got him because I felt bad.. WELL this was a cycle of rages fighting and making up, every few days, and every time we had a fuss he would get on the date site and find another, he would send me a photo of her and tell me he had a hotty.. Of Course I had to run after him. But during this time I was the love of his life he was always taking pictures of me all the time he couldn't get enough and I was eating it up. I thought this man is crazy about me and it felt so good..
Then I found out three months later he had been homeless , He was not feeding the homeless he was eating there and sleeping on the church steps or in his truck.
He had lied to me (RED FLAG) But he said he broke his back and lost his job, ( Later I pieced it together then he home was a EX girlfriends and they broke up she moved and he could not pay the rent. BUT of course I took him in to live with me. But that didn't last because he would start talking about sex with the exs and I would get mad and run him off,, ( CRAZY MAKING) for some reason he had to tell me about his exes and their sex life, I one night was a sleep and he came in the bedroom and woke me up with a soda, When he woke me from my sleep I looked at him as he was over the top on me on the side of the bed. I SAID: I DON'T WANT NOTHING TO DRINK,, he drops to his knees and crawl out of my bedroom on his all fours like a little child that had been yelled at, I sit up in the bed in disbelief, I was scared to death what the hell had I brought home? The next morning I never asked him what he did that for, ( BUT I should have left him alone then.

More later guys I get upset thinking back.