FB Question (Can't Find Answer at FB)
FB Question (Can't Find Answer at FB)
I have a FB question, and I don't even know if it's possible for me to do this.
Back story:
I have completely blocked xnh, his hideous oldest P daughter, and all of his family except for his youngest daughter on FB. The youngest daughter and I have always been close, and our relationship has nothing to do with xnh, at this point. I occasionally speak to her when I see her where she works at a restaurant I frequent. Once in a while I will get a message from her, or one of us will "like" something on each others wall. We NEVER discuss anything to do with either xnh or her horrible P sister. We merely chat about her future college plans and what she's doing currently with her friends. Neither of us want the pain of re-opening our wounds. We both have them, and we both know it.
Until the other day, there has been absolutely nothing that she's done that I've found upsetting or offensive to me, and I really want to keep her in my friends list. I do NOT want to hurt her feelings in any way. Unfriending her would do this.
I recently went on a trip to see my nephew's new baby, and I posted a bunch of pictures. Xnh's youngest daughter "liked" the album. This is all fine with me. However, when I clicked on her profile to see what's new with her (yes, I know curiosity killed the cat), right at the top of her wall it was posted that she had added xnh's OW's daughter as her sister. I don't know if he's remarried after only 10 months since our divorce, or if his youngest daughter is "role playing" for some reason (she's a teenager so who knows what they're thinking sometimes - lol). Quite frankly, I don't really care. Xnh is a total idiot. Whatever flips his skirt up.
However, his youngest daughter "liking" my album got me thinking that it's very possible that she may post pictures of her hideous P sister's kid whenever she pops it out (xnh hideous P daughter is 8.5 months pregnant). My dilemma on FB is that I do NOT want to see pictures of the baby, xnh, OW, the hideous P daughter, or any of xnh's relatives shoved into my face, if this youngest daughter should post something. I've tried very hard to stay away from seeing (or hearing) any "updates" about any of this whole drama. It's very upsetting and painful to me, and I expect that the hideous P daughter will likely abuse or neglect this poor child. In addition, I am trying to heal from the pain xnh and this horrible P daughter have caused in my life for the past 16 years, and xnh's hideous P daughter's whole baby drama is likely to upset/anger me in many, many ways.
I've made a firm boundary around myself, and remain NC from anything to do with xnh or his hideous P daughter, and I don't want my recovery backsliding because I've inadvertently been exposed to any painful emotional flak concerning any of this mess via xnh's youngest daughter on FB. I don't think she would post anything to deliberately be mean to me, but seeing it will hurt and upset me nonetheless.
So my question is:
Does anyone here know if it's possible make xnh's youngest daughter "invisible" to me whenever I get onto FB without actually "unfriending" or "blocking" her? I want to maintain whatever relationship I currently have with this girl, but I do NOT want inflicted with hurtful (to me) pictures/comments about the hideous P daughter or her baby. Does anyone know if I can hide one of my own friends from my view without unfriending them? Help!
Thanks Shortway and Finally
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