fallen for it again..

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#1 Jul 8 - 4PM
lynsey
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fallen for it again..

why is it so hard to keep the idea of what they are in your head? i had read all the books and researched finally decided that he was a N. I struggled with the NC and contacted him
he said he loves me but we cant be together , he doesnt want to be nagged and wants no pressure- i was willing to compromise my whole core beliefs as in wanting children, marriage and consistency when less than 7 days later and seeing each other twice he decides again that i havent changed im too negative and that he cant forgive me for pushing him away in the past.
i have been stuck in this catch me chase me cycle for almost nine years and its hard not to blame yourself and your behaviour in this i have started to think maybe he isnt that bad maybe i have hurt him too much for him to let go of the anger towards me.. why is it so hard to let go of somebody when they have already let go of you ?

Jul 10 - 9AM
lynsey
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kind words go far

Jul 8 - 6PM
Brit
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Breaking free

Jul 8 - 6PM (Reply to #6)
.brokenglass.
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Wow, Brit......Lynsey...how long to escape

Jul 8 - 7PM (Reply to #7)
Brit
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Brokenglass

Jul 8 - 6PM
onwithmylife
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lynsey

Jul 8 - 5PM
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lynsey

Jul 8 - 5PM
LadderToTheMoon
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Same For Me

Jul 8 - 4PM
Hunter
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Did you ever eat The last