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#1 Nov 1 - 7PM
Anonymous (not verified)
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Facebook request

About an hour ago I received a friend request.

It was from some guy that I didn't know. I am not the type to accept friend request from someone I don't know. I am not into collecting a high number of random people out there-- meaningless to me.

Besides my facebook page has personal pics on there intended for the people who have been in my life. (Old college/ high school friends; people from my past; family, etc)

Anyway, I emailed the guy back with the line "How do we know each other?"

After I typed that I decided to take a peek at his friend list... just in case we knew some of the same people. Turns out this creep collects famous models, a few actresses, and also some unknown, however very attractive girls. There were no men among his friends. I was like ewwwwww this guy is a narc.

Among the pics was the OW...... my narcs baby's mama!!!! I was like WHAT!??!?!?!

Why in the HELL can't I seem to get away from this chick. Last week I was innocently buying groceries in the grocery store and there she was -full body shot on the cover of a magazine. This week I get a friend request and SHE is amongst this person's friends. She and I live in different towns, so our paths NEVER cross in the real world.

Is this the law of attraction... am I attracting this girl to me! Im very serious. Am I doing this somehow with my strong feelings for her... the anger and jealousy I feel for them messing around behind my back. Is that what is drawing her to me.

This must be how Jennifer Anniston feels.. who has to see Angelina Jolie every damn where she looks. Torture!!

Maybe if I stop thinking about the OW she will go away.... I'm so tired of her being interjected into my life. I am sick and tired of seeing her face and crazy big jumbo boobs!!!!

:-(

Is there some kinds ceremony I can perform to make her go away!!!!!

Nov 1 - 8PM
quietude (not verified)
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what?

Oh you are kidding me...that witch was on his FB?? I don't really believe in the laws of attraction stuff as far as her 'following' you kind of thing, but I do think N's & P's DO collect women, and images of women....and it IS very creepy! The 'OW' is just a platic, fake, MESS, and deep down, I don't think I'm telling you something you don't already realize. I've participated on other types of discussion forums, i.e. politics, and there's always some DUDE that wants to friend me on FB. As if they're there trolling for women too, not that they just have a genuine interest in the topic only? My FB is only for those whom I know, so I just ignore. Too bad, my safety and well being comes waaayyy before their ego. Ha, I think it's funny that you blasted him like that, and then blocked him. What a jerk!!!
Nov 1 - 8PM
destiny (not verified)
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It must be the day for that.

It must be the day for that. I just logged into Myspace and there was a new friend request. Like you i am very very leary of any new requests. This guy also has only attractive women and yet says he is happily married and has pics of his family. As for laws of attraction it could be “It's not hard to find the truth. What is hard is not to run away from it once you have found it.”
Nov 1 - 8PM
Jessika (not verified)
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BTW

I wrote that guy back and told him that he is obviously some creepy guy who collects attractive women like toys.... told him I would never give him access to my facebook page and to try to get a life in reality rather than cyberspace. I may have gone overboard.... however I hate narcs and any scent of them will make me go off!! (grrrrrrrrrrrrrr) Then I blocked him!
Nov 1 - 8PM (Reply to #2)
Barbara (not verified)
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jessika

GOOD FOR YOU. the OW sounds like human lint! he can have her! ~~~~~~~~~~~~ My Abuse Information Site Online Coaching & Help