facebook friend? WTF?

I would ignore the requests on FB,,you never know how it will come back to haunt you, plus it it so sophomoric. Why get involved in something like FB with them when all it will do is lead to crap, nothingness, and no progress for you. I think FB is for junior high, and high schoolers. that is it! Don't post all sorts of stuff on there, it will only lead to trouble, and drama. Not good.

I would change the settings on your Facebook. Go to Privacy & Search option. Then uncheck the box so that no one on FB can even search you. Also there is another setting I think on Contact Info where the "Add as Friend" button is not visible on your profile. This means that no one can request you as a friend - only you can request people to be your friend. Also if you click on her profile, scroll down to the bottom of it and there is a link for "Report/Block" A prompt will pop up and you can "Block this person." Then she will never see anything of yours on FB. Do not respond to her, blocking is the best communication as someone said here earlier. Good luck dear!

Some people can only have love if there is an object to hate. For her & your husband, you are the object to hate so that their relationship can thrive. Their hatred for you holds them together. Obviously, things aren't good there when they are unemployed & he's reaching out to his wife for emotional support. So, she needs to torment you to feel in control & well in herself. Ignore her. Blocking is a form of communication. Total indifference is the greatest pain inflicted. Obviously this woman needs a reaction from you. Indifference will slay her. My N would go BALLISTIC when I ignored him. I think, for him, it was the most painful experience. When I just didn't care anymore--he lost it, totally lost it. But, now he's gone completely. Starved that Vampire.

Just because it's called 'friending' someone on FB, it doesn't have anything to do with 'friendship'. It's another way in the door for her, for them...abuse by proxy through her most likely. Remember how she sent him that e-mail when he was at your house to show off how "happy" they were? Wow, FB would be a great opportunity for her to wave it in your face all the time, AND to spy on YOU. Since when do N's or even the brainwashed GF's of N's do anything that makes sense? This is pretty nervy on her part, but surprising? NO. Good job continuing to block and ignore... PS. You can block people totally, I believe all you need is their e-mail. I did this with my exN.