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#1 Dec 13 - 5PM
Hunter
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I just wanted to give my 2cents..

I'm friends with many here on FB.. Someone today just added me as a friend .. I just now peaked at her profile..A beautiful woman indeed..

As I thumbed thru some of the profiles.. I thought.. All these people are amazing people with amazing lives..

How dare we allow one toxic person try and destroy who we are.. The key word is try..

For me he didn't win.. But he did try..

You are all special.. If you have a FB page.. Go back and review your beautiful lives..

Life is Beautiful.. Don't let this one tiny piece of it define you..

Going forward add some great stuff..

Hunter

Dec 17 - 12AM
Sea
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FB is a good thing if we use

FB is a good thing if we use it well. Just scroll thru your own n note all the fun pictures, your holidays, family and friends. Your life is beautiful!
Dec 16 - 7PM
KittyRising
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Beautiful indeed!

And, all my new friends on the Forum. And, all my girlfriends on Facebook. And, me when I finally quit crying, rubbed the make-up off my chin and started to live my new life. Cheers Hunter! Meows. Kitty
Dec 16 - 11AM
dazedandcnonfused
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This is a great reminder for me. I am struggling in a lot of areas in my life right now. I needed the reminder to look at the big picture and be thankful for all of the blessings in my life.
Dec 16 - 8AM
Layla
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Just wanted to bump this one back up...........

....as a reminder to who and what we all are on here- strong, smart, beautiful, talented, giving and loving human beings!! : )) Oh, and I also wanted to add that Hunter's facebook profile reveals one hot, successful mama in her own right! : ))) ....sorry, someone had to say it!!! love~ Layla
Dec 14 - 3PM
GeorgiaGirl
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Hunter, Hunter, Mo-Munter

Bananafana Fofunter...Me Mi Mo-Munter...Hunter!! I've been wanting to sing that song for a while now! You make a great point and I count my blessings regularly. I love to review my pictures on Facebook to see how much my kids have grown and all the places we've been. I need to add this year's pics...recovery has over-taken my "spare time". One of my greatest blessings is the group of women here who have led me through my recovery!
Dec 14 - 3PM
Susan32
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FB doing good!

It's nice to see Facebook affecting people's lives FOR GOOD, rather than a venue for self-aggrandizement, bullying, and outright lies. Some posters have had to renounce FB to escape N/P-created drama, but it's wonderful that it's providing a venue for healing&inspiration, as well as education on NPD. There IS a light at the end of the tunnel!
Dec 14 - 2PM
Lisa87
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Ditto, you rock Hunter, we

Ditto, you rock Hunter, we all rock, very cool and so very true!! I feel lucky and blessed every day and that piece of shit is a mere speck on my radar!! Wish I had more time to devote to FB, don't get on there very often (blocked at work), need to get a smartphone, Santa, can you please get me a smartphone for xmas?? : ))))
Dec 14 - 1PM
Kukla
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Great post Hunter. You rock!!!
Dec 14 - 11AM
Goldie
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Great observation Hunter.

We so need to count our blessings especially at this often difficult time of year. Thank you for a wonderful post. God bless, Goldie
Dec 14 - 12AM
LightAtTheEndOf...
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Hunter...

This comes at the right time. We are beautiful women with beautiful souls. Narcs dont pick Bitches for partners lol ;-) xx
Dec 13 - 11PM
Im_always_fine
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I couldn't agree more. When I

I couldn't agree more. When I joined It's All About Him on FB I was struck by the GORGEOUS...interesting...wicked smart...really very exceptional women who posted. I wondered if they aren't like another possession to stroke the NARCS ego. When I first started seeing the NARC. He dropped my name all over town( My family was very affluent when I was growing up. I had to make calls to certain businesses and tell them that doing a favour for him was not the same as doing a favour for my dad) I was right,he had been using his "son in law" status to get FREE goods and services with companies who had a long history with my dad's business...GRRRRR! But he was like a banty rooster crowing about being with me...YUK...#@$K...YUK!!! When we went to the gym he talked WAY LOUDER when he was talking to me or about me. I quit going. It was just too humiliating. He's so socially inept. These guys look for "thoroughbreds" Women who have it all. Looks...smarts...status...that certain something that turns heads.
Dec 13 - 9PM
Winter
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No way they will destroy us!

Hurt - yes, destroy - never! Yes, Hunter, I agree that life is beautiful. Narc free life is simply amazing. How come I never got it before in my pre-narc life? Love Winter
Dec 13 - 11PM (Reply to #7)
Im_always_fine
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I've got big plans for my

I've got big plans for my post-narc life!! Yeh! Oh yeh!! Can't wait!!
Dec 13 - 9PM
LilyS
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This is so true Hunter. Aw

This is so true Hunter. Aw you guys are all friends on fb? That's so cool!
Dec 13 - 8PM
Sparrow
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Very cool. Very cool indeed

Very cool. Very cool indeed my friend! :)
Dec 13 - 6PM
freaked
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hunter......

WOW this is a KEY post dear Hunter...sooooo true.. we really MUST regress back to pre-narc time and see how beautiful we were...that truly helps. What I did is this: CLOSED my old FB and created a NEW one with ONLY loving old friends...time tested and guaranteed sort..this was since Nov. Big Help. Love freaked
Dec 16 - 10AM (Reply to #3)
peaches
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How do you close a fb account

I have tried and had no luck. Would really like to know how you did that. Thanks, Peaches
Dec 13 - 8PM (Reply to #2)
Redhead
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Hunter

Love you Hunter:)