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#1 Apr 11 - 12PM
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I now have a page on Facebook...

http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/pages/One2One4Victims/11261349209642...

or search for "One2One4Victims"

Let's keep spreading the word about pathology!

Apr 14 - 3PM
seancunningham
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Can Anyone Tell Me??

Why do nitwits post their "We're SO in Love" photos on Facebook? Who cares? It's SO high school! I know I was just a rest stop...but damn. I'm not even cold yet. I didn't get my photo taken. I got insulted, berated, and isolated. Talk about your whirlwind romances. It's been less than 3 months. I find it quite funny. I quess I was too difficult to fall for that crap. It's SO textbook and predictable. When does it stop? I'm closing my Facebook account as of immediately. I don't want to see it....I don't want to know about it. Just when I thought I had enough, it keeps piling on. What a putz. How do you spell N-A-R-C???
Apr 14 - 4PM (Reply to #5)
Barbara (not verified)
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Sean

You are sooooo right Sean! here's what my first N (53 years old) and his new wife (56 years old and a former jr. high girlfriend) are plastering all over the place. Wonder how their 1st spouses & adult children feel about the "love of my life" nonsense. Not terribly diplomatic. http://www.lisaescott.com/forum/2009/07/22/barbaras-story#comment-13476 http://www.classmates.com/directory/public/memberprofile/list.htm?regId=7280080229 (she's on Facebook if anyone cares to friend her and tell her she's delusional, and do NOT mention this board so he doesn't find his way here... I have her & him blocked... LOL) Sean what's yours Facebook link? I won't say anything unless you want me to - just want to add it to our post of Facebook Psychos... ~~~~~~~~~ Moving Forward: Coaching for Victims Pathologicals "Victims would love to 'leave it in the past' (wouldn't you?) But they can't. Because it's trauma to them. It's a deep wound... and they carry it with them every minute of every day. This doesn't make they crazy, liars or scorned. It makes them human."
Apr 14 - 5PM (Reply to #6)
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Hi Barbara & Moving On

Thanks so much for your support. It really means a lot. Since the break-up, I've suffered so many mysterious illnesses. The fall-out and the stress were enough to kill me...seriously. I get down but not depressed. It started with pneumonia and now it's chronic back issues. I'll get through it. I'm strong. Barbara, please understand that I'm unable to share the link, as I'm fearful of this person and what the reprocussions would be. I live in a rural town. We are literally a mile away. N would come off smelling like a rose...and I would be judged as the scorned party. I honestly wish I could. It would serve N right to be branded. However, I am way too cowardly to test the limits of N's temper. We are not dealing with a sane person here. N now has an ally, a confidante. I'm sure I've been branded insane. But there are two versions of the story. I'm laying low until it all blows over. I know what I went through, it wasn't made up, it happened. It will take some time, but new person will suffer as I did. The name has changed, but the story will stay the same. Thanks so much for being there!
Apr 14 - 7PM (Reply to #7)
Barbara (not verified)
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sean

Oh I know... if you have ever read thru my website about Sociopaths (linked in right margin here) you'll see the onslaught of smear and attacks I put up with so I get it. Should you change your mind - let me know - there are ways to mask it. Until then, totally understand. ~~~~~~~~~ Moving Forward: Coaching for Victims Pathologicals
Apr 14 - 3PM (Reply to #4)
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Hi Sean

It is VERY high school. The N changed his FB status to in a relationship and also made the OW take pics and also post them. He knew that I would be watching. Surprisingly, he changed his settings to try to hide them from me but failed miserably. When I called him out on it, he freaked and pretended like that's what I should have expected when not waiting on him hand and foot. He also stopped talking to me after that and we have never spoken since because he gave me the silent treatment. He abandoned me because he knew that's what I was about to do. It was all a part of punishing us emotionally for not being their bitch. I also got rid of FB and have been very content since, with no temptation to go and check out pics. It really does hurt when you see it, mostly because you know it's fake and that they should not get away from conning everyone into thinking they have it all when they really don't. They are truly fu**ed up creatures.
Apr 14 - 3PM (Reply to #3)
moving on
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Hi Sean

It is VERY high school. The N changed his FB status to in a relationship and also made the OW take pics and also post them. He knew that I would be watching. Surprisingly, he changed his settings to try to hide them from me but failed miserably. When I called him out on it, he freaked and pretended like that's what I should have expected when not waiting on him hand and foot. It was all a part of punishing us emotionally for not being their bitch. I also got rid of FB and have been very content since, with no temptation to go and check out pics. It really does hurt when you see it, mostly because you know it's fake and that they should not get away from conning everyone into thinking they have it all when they really don't. They are truly fu**ed up creatures.
Apr 12 - 6AM
Barbara (not verified)
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thanks to those who joined... I am trying to promote my coaching, since coming to this site a year ago I have had only 2 new clients and no more old ones... so become a FAN and let's get the word out! ~~~~~~~~~ Repetition does not transform a lie into the truth. - Franklin D. Roosevelt Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals