Face book watching

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#1 Sep 20 - 11AM
Scoop
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Face book watching

The narc whole life is one big made up preformance ,he conducts every inch of his life with a carefully rehearsed script , he does this because there is no real personality in him , no sence of self . If we can asume his life is one big act its not a huge leap of faith to asume his face book page is a made up piece of theater . Like most people when i caught wind of there being something very wrong with my narc i watched his FB like a hawk , after i broke it off with him i was still glued to his page and short of having a spread sheet and chart i could tell you every likes from people , picture posted and date of his next event to the last minute . I had to , i had to try and make sence of the lies , the OW , the OM , the whole relationship . BUT guess who knew i was doing this ? the narc knew or if he didnt he would take a reasonable guess i was watching him , in time i was noticing patterns in his behaviour , pictures of him going up , if we had had a fight in the day there where pictures the next morning of him in a pub laughing and having a good time , it would devastate me .. and HE KNEW that , The script he was using in his real like was being transfered onto FB all designed to get maxim hurt , maxim supply for very little effor . For exsample a narc is very good at doing something or saying something where with a quick calulation he has run through in his head on how much supply he will get from how many people if he goes ahead with his plan , So , he post a picture of him with the ow looking dreamingly into his eyes , this action a win win situation for a narc , for the women he is tormenting it causes trianglation and great pain and frustration (frustration is their supply of choise from someone they have just D&D) and he gets 100 extra browny points for the woman in the picture he is love bombing at the time ... and if you think they are not that devious and calculating then think again . Whilst you are crying your self to sleep over the picture he is laughing all the way to the supply bank .

The only way to stop his games having any effect on you is to cut him off at the sorce and BLOCK him on face book , let me tell you the moment you press that button on FB saying Report/bock is the moment you moved another great big leap on that ladder to recovery , its just a little click but the power of doing it is huge , with that little click you are saying a massive F**k you to him , you are putting your well being ahead of his , you are in the position where you are closer and closer to freedom from this twisted sadistic parisite .. I know its not easy , i have sat there obsessing over his page , i know what its like but i can tell you the only way to heal is with NC , and NC means NC .. get rid of him , use FB to contact your real friends ,your loving family and people who only want the best for you as it was designed to do . You will get the answers about the realtionship you are looking for but real understanding can only really happen when he is completely gone from your life .. Big Hugs and get clicking ! Scoop xx

Sep 20 - 12PM
Liberated2Aspire
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Thank You Scoop

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Sep 20 - 1PM (Reply to #7)
Deidre99
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why do they care if an ex

Sep 20 - 1PM (Reply to #9)
Liberated2Aspire
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That's some good information you've stated!!!

Liberated2Aspire

Sep 20 - 1PM (Reply to #8)
Liberated2Aspire
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Yes, I have been reading ...that was my point. They are SICK!

Liberated2Aspire

Sep 20 - 12PM
Goldie
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Oh Scoop you are kind

Sep 20 - 11AM
Juliette
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I blocked him, her and a whole host of others . . .

Sep 20 - 2PM (Reply to #3)
Lacey
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Juliette

Sep 20 - 3PM (Reply to #4)
Juliette
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Wow, Lacey, he's a persistent little bugger

Sep 20 - 11AM
Deidre99
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I really missed you and your