Explaining being with an N to the "uninitiated"
Explaining being with an N to the "uninitiated"
The other day I was talking to someone, trying to explain quickly why being involved with an N is so traumatic (and why it takes a long time to deprogram and heal). I'm sure we all get these questions and it can be frustrating trying to explain it and field their questions or looks of disbelief. So I thought I'd share what I said:
"Imagine you think you have found the love of your life and you trust this person with your heart and personal safety. And then one day he quickly pulls off his mask and you realize he's the Jack Nicholson character in The Shining. Heeeeeeere's Johnny! Imagine how traumatic that would be?"
I know, it's a simplistic explanation but it seemed to paint the picture and drive the point home. And it didn't beg any additional questions from the person I was talking to.
I've also put it in this very bottom line, simplistic statement when someone wants to know why I broke up with my ex N. I say, "Well, if I had stayed with him I would have either ended up in the mental ward or an early grave. Neither were appealing."
Like it!
Ghostbuster-
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
Ghostbuster
Great analogy! I think
That sums it up...
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"Soldier, don't confuse your rank with MY authority!"
To anyone married who
I think
smileyfacepr
i find people dont get me
I get the same feeling
thanks for sharing that!
I understand how tough it is
Eerie Feeling
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"Soldier, don't confuse your rank with MY authority!"