ExN quotes

People Suck you cant trust anyone I wish I hadnt had to leave I am king of this town I wont change for anybody do you hear me anybody stop whining....(was talking to him about my fears with cancer) I am not cheating You dont trust me Just Trust me I am not talking to anyone inappropriatly I cant live without you do you want me dead....one time when I caught him sexting with my best friend and kicked him out...btw he wouldnt leave. arent you scared to be without me cause I sure as hell am scared to be without you. why do you put up with me thank you for putting up with me the party wont start till I get there so we can leave when I am ready oh boy the list just goes on and on

"I'm a master manipulator" "I'm smarter than you. You think you're smart and that is fine, but I'm smarter." "It's ok, you will learn" "I will never change" "You're always trying to change me. Does a paedophile change? does a thief change? No! a thief will always be a thief" (wtf was that supposed to mean , I really don't want to know....) "Sex with you is good because you're slutty" (i border on asexual now though lol...) "I don't date pretty girls. They think they're too pretty for sex. They refuse this, won't do that..." (translation: you're ugly so if you want to keep me interrested....better be slutty, girl!) how every compliment I've ever gotten is about my...private parts. Never the eyes, smile, body, legs, butt...always a very specific tiny area.Apparently this is all I have going for me lol. Well thanks.

Ready? "I'm the second coming of Jesus" (And he actually believes he is, being unable to move on with his life because he is waiting for the end of the world to happen, he has some sort of mission then)

"the narc networking symposium or something..." seriously, Deidre40. (in no particular order) "you have no empathy" "I feel like I'm just a tool you're using" (since I was sharing things about myself with him in conversation, and hence 'using' him) "I'm such a catch, that's why you keep coming back to me" "You don't know how to keep your man" "I'm not physically satisfied w/ you" (maybe I was not being like the porn girls he loved watching) "There's no trust in this relationship" "I'm willing to try" (*try* was his key word, said this phrase a million times, when leaving. He'd make me think I'm the one leaving, yet it was just what he wanted to do) "If things were good in our relationship, maybe I wouldn't have to turn to porn" "Get off your high horse" "You're my soulmate" "I like her, but I love you" "We're *just* friends" "I canceled my membership" (like a trillion x. to a singles site to sex chat) "I want to make a home with you" "You're not worth marrying" "If you promise you'll take care of my feelings, i'll still marry you" "I wish we were married" (when hoovering, and I wasn't answering) "You have nothing inside and are empty, that's why you try to suck it out of other people" "I want someone to take you off my hands" I told him once, "you have no emotional intelligence" and he said "if you had emotional intelligence, you wouldn't be with me". Sometimes, I'd think he's right. oh and def. one of the shockers from years ago is "you're a cancer in my life"

i love you even though no one in my family wants us together i love you though my family wants me to be with someone better trust me you dont trust me im not lying to you you always think i am lying your the only on i have ever truly loved i saw a vision of you before i even met you if plants grew around beauty you would forever walk in a garden i am not talking to or texting other girls i dont even go on facebook anymore i feel like im on aa leash i never get to talk to anyone i want to talk to everyone and anyone he always correct my spelling punctation and grammer another favorite is so what you always.. you never.. you never apologize the list is endless my favorite...."i punched a guy in highschool for cheating on his gf, i will never cheat" "ive never cheated on you"

I hate women I hate everybody I hate the WORLD I said, If you're happy & you know it clap your hands!

"I'm a special breed" HAHAHA! The immediate visual was the Narc Ranch and a scene involving a branding iron. If only...

"you're boring. I'm bored with you" "all those other girls, i never loved them like i loved you" he would mimic me dancing, talking, hand gestures i use "where did you learn how to fold? do you know how to do anything right?" "stay out of my life psycho" "you don't know what it's like to be a man. do you expect me to keep my dick in the pants for the next 20 years? NO" "don't tell me what to do, you're not my mother" (he's adopted.. you don't even know your mother a*hole!!!) refer to himself in the THIRD PERSON all of the time for example, after a fight, the follow up text "can *jon* come over?" (name changed) "good thing you didn't go to a real 4 year college like me, you're too much of a nerd to have been cool" "pants are fitting tighter i see" (im a size 2) "size a boobies!" "marriage is for idiots" "oh here we go.. miss insecure" txt message: "why did you rape me last night?!" after i had been sleep raped, that was always the follow up text making it a joke i'm queasy right now.

Early in our 'relationship' whenever I was attempting to sort out his mixed messages and thinking that this could be a productive conversation, his only comment was: "This is a learning experience for me." This was from the mouth of a 50 year old never married man. Little did I know that what he was really saying is that he studying me to find my vulnerabilities. Ick.

xN : " People are all part of a backdrop, like cut out figures- I view them as objects , trees, cars..etc. " "I want children...ummmm, no I dont want children, well I would want a child , but only as a baby when it grows older- I couldnt tolerate it anymore" " I feel like the elite of the world" " I dont HAVE to explain anything to you, I wont quit smoking FOR YOU, and if you dont like it, you know where the door is" ( I REALLY WISH I HAD RAN FOR THE DOOR THEN)

"I'm a chameleon. I've been told I take on the traits of the people I'm currently hanging around." Yeah, will like the real chameleon, not only could xnh change his colors at a moment's notice, he was also a true lizard (complete with the forked tongue). lol. "I'm a 'family man'." Meaning xnh was only concerned about HIS family of origin, namely his mommy. He also said this to imply that *I* have no concept of loving my family. Only HE does. Right, and I have purple alligators flying out of my butt. "You don't have a maternal instinct in you." Being a narc with a dick hanging between his legs and possessing no empathy, I'm quite sure xnh would not recognize a 'maternal instinct' if it came up and bit him on the backside. When xnh said this to me the "narc speak" translation was, "You're not nearly as obsessed about my hideous P daughter as *I* am, and I haven't been able to force you to be that way either." He was angry at the time he said this to me because I'd thrown his hideous P daughter out of the house after she'd been arrested and she was in jail on felony drug possession charges. He was, also, angry that I would not cough up the money to bail her out, and it forced him to sell her own car for the bail bond. Personally, I thought xnh's hideous P daughter losing her own car to post the bail for her own drug charges was rather fitting. She did the deed. She should be the only person paying for it. "I loved you and you were my HIGHEST priority....always." Xnh told me this during a hoover attempt. I just looked at him and said, "Oh so THAT'S why you told me that I was 'just the wife' and you would take ten of your hideous P daughter over one of me!?!?" What a pile of crap! I was the bottom of the barrel EVERY time with xnh. The clerk he didn't even know at the grocery store got a higher priority than I did in my own marriage. These narcs will literally spout out ANYTHING they think will work for them. To quote my sister, "They open their mouths and shit falls out."

All About Him: "Whenever you touch me, it feels great." "Oh God, I'm in Heaven." After four months together the start of the D&D: "I'm just not attracted to you. I tried, I really tried." When a guy commented on how attractive I was in front of him after the above incident, the N's response was: "there are a lot of sick people in this world."

‘’I have skills.’’ (he meant in the bedroom, and no, he didn’t lol) ‘’All my ex’s are crazy.’’ ‘’All my ex’s are stalkers.’’ (not me, pal) ‘’My mom does eeeeverything right.’’ (I didn’t want to remotely know what he meant by that) ‘’Crazy cunt wrote me today on FB.’’ (this is what he dubbed one of his ex’s—looking back, why was she on his friend list? Lol doh!) ‘’Dee…be a good girl, and you’ll have no issues with me.’’

I was mentally fucking u when i was interviewing u ( that was for the position of lawyer) I would prefer to keep in contact with u because u are the best kiss in town All my exes are my number one fans! I am in the mood for long hair slim women now and u fit the category so i am chasing u

"See how happy I am right now? All you have to do is have sex with me whenever I want it and I won't yell at you or throw things at you anymore". No kidding. He actually said this many times.

That really made me laugh! "I don't have empathy, sorry"... Narcs are excellent comedy material! My Narc delivered my favourite line when I asked him what he liked about me: "Uhmm... well, you're blonde! I'm really tired of brunette" Also, when I asked him how he fell in love with his ex (I was expecting to hear something romantic): "Well, she was pretty much the only one who was interested in me at the time"