Exhibitionism

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#1 Jan 7 - 12PM
GhostBuster
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Exhibitionism

I've read that Ns are exhibitionists. Brings to mind a flasher or someone who likes sex in public places (to show off or for the thrill of it). But is there more to it? Could it be situations where they like to show you off to friends/family as a "trophy"...or some testament to make them appear better than they are or normal?

I remember the first time I had sex with my N (on our first weekend trip away), he kind of went crazy and throughout the trip he wanted me to jerk him off on tour buses (sat in the back expressly for that purpose...so wouldn't get caught...but with the thrill of "maybe" getting caught)and on the plane ride home (under a blanket, etc.) I finally told him no because it was making me uncomfortable, but I've always wondered if this was the exhibitionist thing in action.

Does anyone know more about exhibitionism as it pertains to Ns/Ps?

Jan 7 - 1PM
cynthia (not verified)
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exhibitionism

Without a doubt they are, absolutely!!!!! Mine liked nude beaches, having sex with other couples, watching others have sex, no shame at all, mine wanted me to go to a nude beach and lay out on the beach with my legs open for others to see, ya right like I am going to do that, ick I NEVER did anything with him in any of that respect, they walk around naked, showing the world what they have, very open and like to show their bodies, Thats ok because mine is 54 years old give him a few more years and who the hell wants to look at that
Jan 7 - 2PM (Reply to #2)
Barbara (not verified)
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putting it all out there

Psycho-Boy for sure. Webcam or anywhere else he could get away with it. He's a big deal at his temple... I doubt he'd flash there but... October 2002 the temple had a Purim party. Everyone dresses up in costume for that holiday. He wore a Spiderman outfit... with no underwear or jockstrap. He was so PROUD he sent me a pic of him with his arm around his son and there it was. Mr. Tiny. How his wife didn't say anything to him... or anyone else - is BEYOND ME. ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website
Jan 7 - 2PM (Reply to #3)
BlueMoon
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Yes,

My father, a college professor who taught sex education, mind you, would constantly wear inappropriate exhibistionistic clothes around my my little sister and me. Leave porn around, talk about his genetalia, about our bodies...my mom was have crocked at the time, so she didn't notice. I love her, and have some to realize that she was a victim too. My ex-N wanted outside sex, outside exhibitionism, and even wanted to watch me get fucked by other guys (I didn't do it.)
Jan 7 - 3PM (Reply to #4)
GhostBuster
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Yuck!

Ish...we sure found ourselves some sicko's, eh? Thanks for sharing your stories. I am wondering if exhibitionism (as it pertains to narcissism) is simply sexual exhibitionism. I think of exhibit, which translates to show/display...and I wonder if it extends to a lot of what they do non-sexually too. Show us off as their girlfriends/wives/trophies (while we're being idolized). Show the world they're important, etc. Just wondering if it has a broader meaning when it's related to Ns.
Jan 7 - 4PM (Reply to #5)
quietude (not verified)
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They're all about body parts

...and showing off. Which is probably why I used to come home from work, and many times my ex was doing push-ups or exercising nekkid in the bedroom. He later told me in an annoyed way that it was a HINT for me (to jump his bones). Again, another reason to blame me for the failure of the relationship that I didn't want to have wild sex every day after getting home from work ~ which of course made me feel boring and inadequate. When we first met, he sent me lots of pics...I was pretty shocked to get a butt pic early on??? I should have known something was odd then! I'd get pics of just back, just torso, just legs, just arms, some flexed, some not. Then much into the relationship, pics of his thingymabob. Of course, from what he said, he was the most modest guy in the world and hated people who bragged. More proof of what they say vs. what they actually DO.