The Emperor Has No Clothes
The Emperor Has No Clothes
Someone reminded me this morning of the story of the Emperor's New Clothes. In case you can't remember this fable, here is a summary of it from Wikipedia:
"An Emperor who cares for nothing but his appearance and attire hires two tailors who promise him the finest suit of clothes from a fabric invisible to anyone who is unfit for his position or "just hopelessly stupid". The Emperor cannot see the cloth himself, but pretends that he can for fear of appearing unfit for his position; his ministers do the same. When the swindlers report that the suit is finished, they mime dressing him and the Emperor then marches in procession before his subjects, who play along with the pretense. Suddenly, a child in the crowd, too young to understand the desirability of keeping up the pretense, blurts out that the Emperor is wearing nothing at all and the cry is taken up by others. The Emperor cringes, suspecting the assertion is true, but holds himself up proudly and continues the procession."
Hans Christian Andersen said that the way he wrote the story was inspired by a real-life incident: "In 1872, he recalled standing in a crowd with his mother waiting to see King Frederick VI. When the king made his appearance, Andersen cried out, "Oh, he’s nothing more than a human being!" His mother tried to silence him by crying, "Have you gone mad, child?"
The narcissist who used to be in my life is a teacher, and he still has a large and loyal following. Having gotten to know him much better than most of his students do, or the parents who bring them to his classes do, I am now amazed at the respect he commands from everyone around him. Because I know his respectable qualities are utterly false. He has no clothes, and it's now so glaringly obvious to me. I think it's something he's constantly aware of himself. But it's amazing to me that he is able to keep up the charade -- that, in fact, he's so good at it.
Underneath my anger at him, I feel embarrassed for him. And amazed at my own (past) gullibility, and the gullibility of everyone around him. Instead of working so hard to convince everyone he's wearing clothes, I wish he would just put some actual clothes on.
As my ex-P got older
That's so interesting, Dee
silver and gold
The More I Think About This Story...
i have always like this
Gullibility