Emotional Pain Can Lead to Illness

Yes, I know about the autoimmune illnesses that can hit, you are healthy, doing this and that and something goes haywire...all the more reason to stay away and out of danger,,its for real..you are a true sweetheart : )

Depression, insomnia, weight gain, hair loss, irregular spotting while with him. Afterwards, depression, PTSD, weight loss (started to exercise), adult acne, insomnia. 2 yrs later: still problems with adult acne, sometimes have trouble staying asleep, down days but not full blown depression.

I think I had border line PTSD, disturbed sleep, obsessive thoughts, depression ...and then I got shingles. The doctor said it was from stress and repressed chiken pox but activated by severe stress. Yes, this can hurt you more ways that you can imagine!

they say a bad or stressful relationship can KILL you and how true that is, Isuffer and still do from high blood pressure issues ans use to get panic and anxiety attacks because he put me through such hoops and I never knew when he was going to dump me, because he did it time and time again, I was a nervous wreck from the man and I am glad to have survived and then when I came down with this organism inside my body that was infecting my muscle tissue, all he could do was scoff at the notion that I had it. Luckily through a wonderful doctor I got cured but he was NO COMFORT OR HELP at all, use to make fun of me for walking like an old lady I was in such muscle pain. WHAT A RETARD!!!

Oh yes. I totally agree. I've had all kinds of health problems from the stress and emotional pain of living with xnh and his horrible P daughter. If the emotions are not let out, health problems increase. Among me health problem are: 1. Facial ticks 2. Greatly increased Rheumatoid Arthritis attacks. 3, Onset and continual flare-ups of another autoimmune problem called Lichen Sclerosis. This one was so severe that I could not go to work for an entire summer, and I had to work at home because the pain was so bad. I FULLY sympathize with your losing the ability to walk for a month. Autoimmune problems are known to be effected immensely by stress, and they can be really ugly to live with. 4. Very severe allergies that became so bad that I was, at one point, diagnosed and placed on a nebulizer three times a day and asthma medications. I was also on COPD medications as well. As it turns out, I have neither asthma or COPD. 5. A chronic cough that lasted for 10 years (I've never smoked), and it was finally diagnosed as GIRD, and drainage from the allergies. This cough was so constant and severe that I actually fractured ribs at several different times. Xnh being the un-empathetic turd that he is, told me that my cough annoyed him, and that I merely need to "train myself to cough more quietly." Of course, then I was afraid to cough because I knew he was going to yell at me. A$$hole. By the time xnh D&D'd, I was on such a downward health spiral that I was heading to a hospital (soon). Since I've gotten xnh and his hideous P daughter out of my life eight months ago, my health has improved in huge leaps and bounds. I no longer cough constantly, I have had ONE Lichen Sclerosis flare-up. The facial ticks are completely gone. My arthritis still flares occasionally, it is no longer constantly in an uproar. I've taken off all allergy, asthma, and COPD medications except for during the several months of normal allergy season. I only take it now as needed instead of every day all year around like I was doing when I was with xnh. My improved health is a BIG indicator of exactly how toxic xnh and his P daughter were for me. ______________________________________________________ God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.

been sick since he D & D'd almost three months ago, which is unusual. When the psycho was in my life I got some sort of sickness every three months or so, which is not like the "me" before him. I was constantly worn down, exhausted and got sick enough to miss work at least once every three months or so. When he would D & D in the past and then hoover, I always got sick. It was such constant high drama. His lack of hoovering and the horror of the D & D have actually been a blessing as far as my health goes. Dealing with the end stages of my father's life, working full time and spending every weekend there, I feel remarkably well in terms of my physical health. It has been surprising, but telling and most welcome. Maybe the steady dose of psycho poison was taking me down in ways I didn't see when I was in it. I prefer to be well. I wish the same for all who visit here. Sincerely (still trying to stop) spinning

I couldn't understand what was happening to me physically but I had so many awful secrets about my relationship that it was literally killing me. Here are some of my ailments: panic attacks, difficulty swallowing, rapid heart beat, heart palpitations, nervous twitches, insomnia, night terrors, depression, anxiety, agoraphobia, leg pains, back pains, chest pains, headaches The list goes on and on This is very real and I decided to tell all of the secrets because I need some relief!

Mine causes: 1. MS symptoms. 2. Facial paralysis 3. Back pain. 4. In bed for one year; unable to sit for more than 5 minutes for 6 months due to pain. 5. Depression 6. Difficulty breathing And the list goes on and on. I was a pressure cooker with a lid on. It wasn't until I started talking to friends about it that I start to heal physically. The body is an amazing machine that runs by using chemicals and when your brain alters these body chemicals, all kinds of bad things happen!