Doubting my perceptions

I keep flipping back and forward on whether he was a narcissist or not.

He maintained that I hardly knew him, that he couldn't give me warmth, that I was being negative and off-putting for bringing up his callous mistreatment of me. When I wouldn't leave it alone, I wanted acknowledgement of my hurt feelings, he wanted me gone, "walk away and cease contact". That he likes lots of people, used to like me, but my negative reactions have caused him to stop.

I don't know whether this was just headfuck territory, or whether I am the one to blame for this. He has finally blocked me on Facebook, there is no hope for reconciliation as friends at all, but I keep thinking that one day, we will meet up again and things will be fine.