Don't ever think your Strong Enough to Break No Contact...
Don't ever think your Strong Enough to Break No Contact...
I can't even remember the last time i spoke to the Narc. He called several times while dd was in gymnastics class. I finally answered. He asked about dd & the boys. He was being extremely nice. I asked him if he was married yet & he said no but hoped to be someday. He told me that now that time has passed, he realizes all the hell he put me through & that he was soo sorry. He said that if he could do it all over again he would do it differently. He said he wished he had tried harder & we had gone to counseling like i wanted to. Anyway, he said he wished we could be friends. He said he was really happy with this girl (been with her since June), that he's inlove with her, & hopes to have a future with her. He went on to tell me that she was diagnosed with cervical cancer & doctors didn't know how long she's had it. He went on to tell me that he contacted his dad (they've never had a good realtionship & hadn't spoken to him in 7 yrs). I aways tried to get him to make mends with his father. Its almost like he's turning a new leaf. He seems to be trying to make mends with everyone. Do u think his gf's illness is making him look at life differently? Could this one woman be the one that miraculously changed the narc's life around. Things are different between them. She has not allowed him to move in to her house (he usually moves in with women right away), he's been with her for nine months & says he's very happy! I have not been able to stop thinking about him ever since! All the anger & hurt had settled & I'll be damned if its not all back in full force! I wanted to hurt him so i texted him & said that it was so typical of him to not do anything special for dd for V Day. I said that it was ok cos her stepdad had taken her to a Father/Daughter formal ball where they dance & went on a horse & carriage ride (she wore a tiara, long white gloves the whole bit!) I said that she knos her stepdad will always be there for her & that she knows the narc never follows thru with his promises. I had no idea he would still have so much effect on me. I don't want to kno he's happy, i don't want to kno that he will be showering gf with attention cos she's sick, i don't want to kno he's mending things with his father! His father is supposively alot like him.. I am in such a foul mood, I'm mad at the world!!! Any comments ???
Do these creeps ever stop???
TexN
Not a chance
Cyn
That's true. My ex narc
TexN
The fact that he called you
Don't fall for it
Remember
Serene
TexN
Yep! Back to square one
Texn
quietude you are RIGHT ON!
Oh my gosh that is sooooo
I was going through e-mails