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#1 Oct 27 - 11PM
Anonymous (not verified)
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Doing Fine

Hi friends,
I finished my move and am doing fine. I feel like I'm on an adventure. It's a new start. I am in a place where he has never been and never will be. I've set it up how I like it instead of him telling me how he wants it. I bought a plant!
Just wanted you all to know its not as bad as I thought it would be. I don't think about him as much as I used to. This no contact stuff really does work. haha!
I'm healing and I can feel it. I have a good therapist and a group of women I meet with who have this in common. I'm getting used to living on my own. I'm beginning to like my life again.
I have a ways to go concerning the emotional damage he did to me, and I'm doing the work.

Thanks to everyone here for holding me up and giving me support.
:)

Oct 28 - 9PM
tina
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4joys

Hooray for you! So glad you are doing well and can feel the healing, pretty good huh? :) Look at your plant and know you both have deep strong roots in your new home and we your 'buds' on this board, will do our best to help you to grow :)
Oct 28 - 8PM
Hangman11
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4joys You Are An Inspiration

I am happy for you and your posts are always such an inspiration to me. I have moved and am comfortable. Each day I am getting stronger and sleeping without medication now (unlike when I was living with him and headed damn near straight to Propofol myself!) Even though I had to deal with him this week in court and he was his usual N self, I sure see light at the end of the tunnel thanks to you and the ladies here. Keep It Moving! :-)
Oct 28 - 2PM
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4joys

Yay ~ I'm so glad to hear you're okay, and that you are looking at this as a new adventure. It's so nice to have the freedom to do something as small as buying a plant, as you say...maybe something that they didn't like because of their quirkiness!? Yes, that 'No Contact' stuff really does work..LOL! You sound like you're well on your way, hope your place comes together nicely. I'm moving soon myself, still waiting to hear about the closing date...arrrrggghh, such a dragged-out process. It'll be nice to be in a place, as you said, that HE will never be in! ha Hugs!
Oct 28 - 9PM (Reply to #5)
4joys (not verified)
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Tina,Hangman,Quietude

Thank you! Your encouragement helps a lot. More than you know.
Oct 28 - 3AM
Ellen
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hi 4joys

Hi 4joys, I'm so glad the move has gone well and you are feeling happier now; sounds good maybe i should move if it lessens the thoughts of them. At least you know he has never been there and doesn't know where you are. Seeing that they love to possess and infiltrate everything its good to know this is yours..........and your new plant lol.
Oct 27 - 11PM
Amazed
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Fabulous 4joys!

Awesome and free of his despicable, damaging life. Good to see beyond him. Your vision goes much farther along, than the short sided jealousy, personal deprivation he put you through. You are no longer deprived of beauty, appreciation of life, the simple things, relatioships that truly matter and are fulfilling. He brought shame to your goodness, took advange, made you a victim for your love. you did not see it in the begining, that is because you gave him your purity. F the bastard!!!! His shame is no longer yours. His shame is his own to work on, yours now is pure expression, and light. I am so glad to hear you have found a place, and your safety.
Oct 28 - 11AM (Reply to #2)
4joys (not verified)
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Ellen and Amazed

Thanks so much for your comments! I appreciate it so much. I like what you both wrote. :) xox