does it all end the same

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#1 Jan 30 - 2AM
sucked-in
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does it all end the same

So ex narc left town to relocate for new job and OW, i struggled, but avoided him all weekend and kept safe for myself and our daughter.

I cried and tore myself up fantasising that his whole new life will be wonderful as she is better as she has more money, more to offer than i ever had,and comparing everything.

I am 3 days into NC, our daughter is poorly, though i dont have to tell him, because it wont make any difference, he doesnt support her in any way my story is on here explaining.......

I too am struggling with my physical health, have recently returned to work, but still receiving treatment. Family and friends help, but its still exhausting.

My struggling would be music to his ears, so again, he doesnt know.

ANYWAY, last night i received a call from a friend, telling me that nac has just lost his job.............as he posted it, for sympathy purposes, on his FB.........cant help feeling a little smug. I know we should be careful what we wish for, but it made me smile and realise that bear with a sore head who rages like a child when he has no money, will now be all her problem. Not being skilled in anything other than lying and failing to hold down a decent job all his life, i think they do get what they deserve........

Feb 23 - 6PM
sucked-in
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i also know

Feb 23 - 6PM
sucked-in
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ladies, many thanks

Feb 23 - 9PM (Reply to #20)
IncognitoBurrito
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I definitely

Feb 23 - 9AM
TruthbeginsToday
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My comments may be extreme due to my experience with a P.

Feb 23 - 5AM
sucked-in
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I do know the game, but

Feb 23 - 9AM (Reply to #16)
TruthbeginsToday
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You need to be the one to put

Feb 23 - 10AM (Reply to #17)
talktothehand
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suckedin

Feb 22 - 2AM
Im_always_fine
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I have no doubt the NARC/pimp

Feb 23 - 9PM (Reply to #14)
IncognitoBurrito
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Best

Feb 22 - 2AM
sucked-in
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my smugness didnt last

Feb 22 - 3PM (Reply to #10)
IncognitoBurrito
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Spinning

Feb 23 - 8AM (Reply to #12)
talktothehand
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sucked-in

Feb 23 - 5AM (Reply to #11)
sucked-in
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IB - spinning and shaking

Feb 22 - 12AM
lucero77
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struggle

Feb 21 - 8PM
IncognitoBurrito
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You don't

Feb 22 - 6AM (Reply to #7)
Janie53
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IB

Feb 21 - 7PM
NoMoreFreakBoy
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I learned it does end the same for exN

Jan 30 - 8AM
Deidre99
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even women who have money,

Feb 22 - 2AM (Reply to #4)
Im_always_fine
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Absolutely. Narc are buckets

Jan 30 - 10AM (Reply to #3)
sunshine31
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Deidre99

Jan 30 - 7AM
Garden
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"sometimes, every once in